How do you tell your partner, a very traditional one, that your interested In BDSM and role playing very taboo things?
He's very basic and I want to try what I dream of and crave. How do I explain that without him being too shocked or offended or unwilling
Tilou420 Tilou420
18-21, F
2 Responses Aug 20, 2014

You just have to be open with them. If they can't see that it's something that you need, then maybe they aren't accommodating enough for you. You should always be honest with your partner.

Be blunt, it maybe hard at first. If it makes it easier, tell him over a text or email etc. If he's unwilling, don't pressure him into it. If he is, or questionable, give him time to get use to the idea.

Use your vagina as a weapon;
If he try's to refuse
Make it an offer he CANT refuse.