I have been a good friend to all my guy friends. They did not return the favor, they just kept on making things up to be mean to me. After going through that several times it concerns me. It's like no man is showing me any respect, some people like me were not born in marriage and for the rest of our lives we have to put up with everyone's crap. It isn't even relevant how men treat us. We can't be kind to someone that is constantly trying to hurt us. That's what I feel.