we've been together 10 yrs....and he keeps bringing up a *********..and how he wants to try new things(and people) ....and hes always assuring me that he would never do it without me. well then...why do i keep catching him subscribing tohook-upwebsites and personals sites? what should i do...cuz he hasnt actually acted on anything yet? im worried...shouldnt i be? any suggestions???