At The Beginning
I really want my other half to take me in hand, not because I'm weak but because I want him to take us seriously! We were away recently and we had the greatest intimacy that we had had for sometime. In those moments I found out he still wanted me and that I had miss read the situation because we no longer know who is in charge. So I took the first step- he wants me to be hair free in various areas, and I have asked him to read the taken in hand web site. He is busy doing this now as I write to tell the world we are taking the first steps.
I would like to feel safe, to know that he loves me unconditionally and that I don't have to be in charge al the time. Lets hope he rises to the challenge and takes control of our relationship. I read with envy the postings of how you all felt safe and loved and cherished, I envy the intamacy that is felt between 2 people who trust each other with everything that makes them a couple.
I hope we make it because I long to belong if that makes any sense. Or should I say whole - if that's not too old fashioned a view.