We Are New At Tih And Love It

Me and my man has been married for 8years. When we first got married he would some times stand up to me so what. I am a very strong willed person and have always been controlling. So over the last 8years I have made all the decisions and really just never listened to his thoughts. I am really not sure why but I found this way of life online. I have now turned all this over to my man. I have been doing good so far not in much trouble just a small time out. I am really surprised of that but i can say my man seems so much more happy and we have spent more time in the bedroom in a good way now. There is only one thing that worries me some and any help with this would be great. I have this battle inside myself. I want to be a good girl and not get spanked. However, I also want to test the line just once to see just how bad the spanking would be. Is this normal.
hotrod03 hotrod03
26-30, F
1 Response Sep 9, 2012

Congrats on making a change that is working for both of you. <br />
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I understand feeling the need to know just how bad could a punishment be. However, I agree w/Michelle. Doing somthing bad just to make your Hubby do something is manipulative. In time, after a punishment or two you will probablt be looking back wondering why you really wanted to know what a punishment would be like :-)