3:00 Am

Last night I felt asleep early but I woke up at 3 am with an odd feeling. As I opened my eyes I noticed the lights were still on. I turned around and found my husband fully awake, serious and silent, just staring at me. I instinctively reached for him and he cuddled me, but still he was serious and distant. I remembered then: we had had another fight...
"I don't want to fight anymore. I need you" I said. "Me too, love. I adore you. We need to change this. And you need to learn to talk in a respectful way". That is never a good preamble of course. He got up, went to his closet and brought out one of his belts. My heart sunk but I was in no mood of fighting anymore. It had been a while since my last spanking and it was an intense session. Belt, paddle and hand.
By the end I felt as light as a feather, though I really doubt my sanity when I think this is the only way of changing my mood... Go figure... Lol
anonimacy anonimacy 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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What I take away from this is he let you wake first.

I agree with Willow. If you have entered into such a relationship and his fundamentally a kind man, then let him teach you to be respectful.

It works for you, works for him and certainly arouses me. Thanks

Oh boy, 3 am?!?!? At least you got to fall asleep cuddling right after it.

So nice He knew what you both were needing... Not so great it had to be at 3am. Hopefully you are both feeling better.

Sometimes this just has to be done. I applaud your husband.

I don't think I'd want to wake up to that either. I'm pretty emotional first thing in the morning. Glad it helped you adjust your additude though, and it sounds like it put everything right again. Your not crazy, not any crazier than me anyway!

At least he didn't wake you up with a swat of the belt! I wonder what was going on in his mind all them hours staring at you. lol. Was he thinking, ''If I clear my throat she'll wake up and then she'll get it.'' ~ haha! I just wondered what would happen if you slept the night through. Oh well, at least it helped you both, and you probably slept harder afterward. I hate having unfinished business, then trying to sleep! It don't work. I think I must be as weird as you, because when my butt is left with a sting and burn that feels like a hum of pain,,, I feel content and secure. ~ What's up with that?!? Beings that I'm new (just started in October) I have a hard time understanding my feelings. I've only been spanked by one parent one time and I hated it. I don't know why I find it strangely comforting from my husband.

It's not the only way but it's one that really works. I'm so glad you and your hubby are getting back to normal and that you're feeling better. Well, except maybe for your bottom! Hope that's not too sore.