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Toxicity City

It's a very long story, so I will make it as breif as possible.

Basically, my 3 yr relationship is based around HER... if she doens't get her way or if I " do do what a BF does" she threatens to leave me... than I for some dumb reason always manage to get her back... it's like a game to her... and the fact that she gets mad when I don't text her because I am at WORK and can't text while on the clock or i get fired..... pretty clear to me.... not to her...
it's to the point where I need to ask permission to go to the bathroom.....

I have lost friends and family over her because of the way she treats people......

I need a way to leave .... the "confused" about stuff won't work... she is too smart for that....

lostntransl8tion lostntransl8tion 26-30 2 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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It's all for attention. She must have some insecurity problems or something. You need to take a break for yourself and figure out what YOU want in your life, not what she wants.

tell her the truth and leave her and don't look back... if you can't do it right away make a plan to make yourself never want to go back. i was with a guy who pretty much had me brainwashed he was this older guy i met when i was a teenager and i loved him and he was all there was to me and i had to leave because i didn't know what was gona happen if i stayed but i knew it wouldnt be good so i distanced myself from him i maximized his every negative and i minimized every positive i focused on all i had lost and all i had given up because it was the way he wanted things and eventually it all got to be too much and i ran away from that ******* and i havent looked back.