For Those Who Think That They Can Change Their Lover If...

They will not change if you behave better.

They will not change if you yell back.

They will not change if you love them more.

They will not change if you become spiteful.

They will not change if you talk less.

They will not change if you do exactly what they say.

 

You will not change until you leave.

You will not learn until you leave.

You will not grow until you leave.

You will not understand until you leave.

 

You are strong.

You are unique.

You are beautiful.

You are special.

You are loved.

 

We are not what they say we are.

We are who we are.

We are not supposed to put up with it.

We deserve more.

We are not dependent on them.

We are survivors.

We are not alone.

We are one.

For all people out there who believe that there is no way out... There is. And you ARE strong enough decide that you want something better. That you are worth something more. That you deserve to be happy, and cherished, and loved. If one can do it then all can do it. We never have to be hurt again!

NoWhereToGoButUp NoWhereToGoButUp
36-40, F
4 Responses Feb 12, 2010

Things involved? Love, the things involved are mostly in our head. If you are referring to children then I can assure you that they would never want to see you hurting day after day. There is so much out there if you give yourself the chance. If you don't at least try to change the norm then you will be stagnant and sad and no one wants that for you. If you are referring to property, screw it. If a tsunami came and washed everything away it would be gone. You would get over it and go on with your life.

it all makes sense when its written like this, but its so hard to actually get out when there's so many things involved :(

Thanks Mel.

Nice Post! <br />
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Best Wishes! Mel