10 Years' Difference

Going on five years married to my second husband, who is 10 years older than I am.  To me, that doesn't seem like many.

My first husband was 15 years older.  Age did matter in the end -- it wasn't so bad when we were married at 25 and 40 but at 35 and 50 (when our 10-year marraige ended) the difference seemed huge.

My mother's first husband (my dad) was 15 years older and he always went on and on about it.  They divorced after about 18 years of marriage and my mother remarried a man a few years later who is about 22 years older!  He's now about 92 and she's 70.  And again, here it makes a difference because he is in a home with dementia and many other health problems and she is in fair health.

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6 Responses Oct 23, 2008

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hi... there is a guy who says he loves me , i m 28 and he is just 18... but he makes me feel great... i m so scared to accept this relationship. he keeps on telling me that he loves me and wants to marry me in two or three years.. i dont know what to do.... i love him but trying to avoid it.plz suggest

LunaDreamer - sounds great! 18 years and going strong! Congrats!

LOL....I am 10 years OLDER than my husband! We met when he was 23 and I was 33. I say get 'em young so you can train them right! We are still married after 18 years and happier than ever!

I think since women tend to be more emotionally mature throughout our lives (sorry guys) it does usually work out better to be married to someone older.

my 1st husband was 7 years older, I was 20 when we married and I proved to be the more mature minded, our marriage ended after only 3 years. I remarried 10 years after the divorce finalized to hubby who is 13 years older, for us the age difference doesn't interfere with anything. We've been happily married for 7 years so far.