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I Am In An Age Gap Relationship

Trying to Be Together

By: LucyWell
Written on September 23rd, 2009
By: LucyWell
Age: 26-30 , Female
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6 responses
  • Gady222

    I am glad that you are happy with your boyfriend. I think your ex boyfriend should mind his own business, he just seems jealous or he doesn't want you to be happy, he's in a relationship why is he acting like if he owns you I dont get that. I agree with what PrawnQueen and nukemhi said I think it is better to do that.

    You don't have to worry about your age and his daughter age. He is ok with it. My man has a daughter who is 2 years younger than me and it is fine, I was worried about it that before.

    3 days ago
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  • PrawnQueen

    If your ex is really your guy's friend, he should accept that even if things didn't work out you and him, his friend has a chance to make you happy. It is a happy thing! Perhaps have a talk just with the three of you (like a mini-group therapy session, if you like) to get some things 'out there'. I believe it is always good to talk openly about difficulties. Give this relationship time, don't rush into anything and take it slow, I'm sure you will anyway. Maybe things will begin to clear up when you have all had some time to process the situation. It looks like everyone is running high on emotions, particularly your ex.

    Best Wishes and good luck!

    4 days ago
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  • arsespanker

    I was 50 my wife 19 when we met I have two sons older than my wife a daughter the same age as my wife. Everyone and their dog had an opinion. I was a dirty old man using a young girl for self gratification, or she was a Lolita using womanly charms to break up a happy family. It took me a long time to realise that there preconceived ideas were not my problem. Other peoples problems with your relationship are there problems not yours. 14 years and 2 children later we are happy beyond are wildest dreams.

    6 days ago
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  • jrlovedoctors

    Thank you for sharing your story! I'm glad to hear that your current boyfriend is loving and supporting. Age difference is only the state of mind. Your ex, sounds like, doesn't want you be happy. If he did, he would understand and let go. I have few more helpful tips and let's chat some more when you like me on facebook: http://www.facebook.com/pages/JR-Love-Doctors/460217714041022

    Jan 15
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  • baxi

    IN INDIA, WHERE SOCIAL PRESURE IS VERY HIGH, THOUGH PEOPLE DONT CARE AND U , I THINK FROM EUROPE, ITS SURPRISE THAT UR EX IS SO STRONG, ANY WAY FACE THE PROBLEM OR TACKLE IT WITH BRAVERY.

    Sep 15, 2012
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  • nukemhi

    If you and your man cannot shake this ex off with a stick, get a restraining order. Yeah, they may be friends, but your man will make the right choice for the sake of the relationship if it is meant to be. As far as his daughter goes, he needs to eventually break it down for her and tell her. He should tell her that even if she does not approve, she should repsect his wishes to be with you. The ball is in his court regarding his friend(your ex) and his daughter. If the ex does find out who you are with, tell him! it doesn't matter because you have no reason to care what he thinks and you don't need to own up to him. He is no longer your concern. If he gets psycho=restraining order.

    Oct 23, 2010
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