Almost Sexless Marraige Of 10 YearsI am just about 40 and I have ben married for 10 years & with my wife for 5 years before marrage. Ever since the birth of my son our sex life is maybe 3 times a year. I have been slowly over time just letting it go and dont even want to bring it up. I know she wants nothing to do with sex. She says "I dont know why, nothing turns me on" I just want sex to be something I do with her not feel like it is something I am doing to her. the pressure is getting to much to bear and ************ is a unsaticfing expeience compared to a woman I have commited my entire life to.
I am struggling with resentment of my son I feel she got what she needed from me and that is a child and that is it for me. I feel like a roomate in my own home it is always them & me. I dont know what to do.
We have been to therapy with no results . I was told to just give her time. 7 years has gone by and I am struggling with the thoughts of an affair but I also am a christian and fear the mental issues that will acur with an affair.