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I Am In An Almost Sexless Marriage

Big Plans But A Real Bust!

By: PC2629
Written on April 9th, 2012
By: PC2629
Age: 56-60 , Male
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6 responses
  • toecurrler

    Maybe its time for you to decide what you want in the relationship and express your desires to her? I've found that when I don't really know what I want in the marriage I give her mixed signals. Expressing my true feelings is healthy for me and for the relationship. Saying you are disappointed and sad lets her know the real you. If she continues to ignore your feelings and desires ..... well .... those actions say it all. Maybe its time for you to take the lead and speak up????

    Apr 12, 2012
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    • PC2629

      We're talked and discussed everything, more than one or twice. It is what it is and I should be more understanding. That's a goal of mine but it's hard to do.

      Apr 12, 2012
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  • falcon77

    Been in your shoes and felt that same sense of helplessness. Good luck down the road ... I hope things turn around in your favor.

    Apr 10, 2012
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    • PC2629

      Its a bit like a bad rerun on TV. You seen it a few times but you can't seem to change the channel because nothing else you like is on.

      Apr 11, 2012
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    • falcon77

      A great analogy. I also found that I was sceptical that anything else I would find would suit my needs as well, even though a major need was lacking right before me. Once you step outside that comfort zone your in, whether its really all that comfortable or not, there is no turning back. Sometimes not as simple as black and white.

      Apr 11, 2012
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  • darktippedrose

    I am thinking that its not quite a headache. my hubby has used reasons before and beleive me, its not a valid reason. I think shes an actress.

    Apr 9, 2012
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