Some Public Recongition Of The ProblemI read this story in our local newspaper yesterday.
I also showed it to my partner, the refuser in our relationship. She had no real reaction. She continues to believe that her refusal over the years was justified by how I was treating her. My behavior apparently wasn't bad enough to try counseling or try harder to get her view across but it was be bad enough for her to withhold sex. Getting irritated with her about refusing, well, that is one of the ways I treated her poorly.
The ulitmate Catch-22.