Trying To ReigniteAfter 35 years I've landed myself in not a sexless marriage but one with no intimacy of any kind. I've been angry and full of resentment. He doesn't talk to me, share feelings... nothing. We're roommates without benefits.
I found myself starting to act the same way. One word answers, no questions etc. I'm not sure what happened but I suddenly had a thought: I'm in a vicious circle. The more he treats me poorly, the more I treat him poorly. Food for thought.
This week I've decided to lighten up on myself. Talk to him more, ask his opinion, touch him, basically treat him the way I want treated and see if it makes a difference.
Wish me luck!
bookat57 51-55, F 4 Responses 0 Oct 24, 2012