Almost....but Not Quite....I guess the term "almost" could mean something different for different people. To me it means very infrequent. It also refers to a general lack of intimacy and affection. It means sleeping alone frequently. It also refers to what someone once called "plain vanilla" love-making which without going into unnecessary detail involves a lot of routine. For me, it also involves a partner who does not want to "give back" so that I am discouraged from trying anything different.
"Almost" is a sad place to be, really. One cannot say that he/she lives in a "sexless marriage" but the physical and emotional frustration is still there. Some days are tolerable...others not so much so.
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