My wonderful husband of 3 years is hurting us bad. Recently he has received 3 payday loans behind my back and he still wants more. I told him not to get anymore when I found out about these and that you cannot pay a loan with another loan. The next morning I woke up to him applying for 2 more. We have 3 small children 8,7, and 3 and I cannot do this anymore. This past year he has disappointed me and just made me lose any ounce of trust I had for him. I am a full-time student working towards my law degree and I have had to go back to work full-time as well to help cover the bills, the loan payments take half his check now. We are barely scrapping by and my wedding rings are sitting at my local pawn shop. I am tired of his lies and deceits and know I can do this on my own if I have to. I just don't know how much longer I can continue to check his stuff to make sure he's not getting more loans, he is still applying for them and researching more just not completing the process. I feel as if the love and trust I have for him is all gone and I am at my wits end. I feel as if kicking him out before he completely sinks us would be best but I don't want to do anything that's rash or completely unfair. Am I wrong for feeling this way or are my feeling justified by his actions this past year?? So confused and hurt just needed a listening ear and possibly some words of unbiased wisdom!!