Not Again!

I've been involved with married men for most of my adult life. I don't  really believe one man and one woman can be together monogamously forever. With a married man, I don't feel smothered. But no matter how great it is, I always end up wanting more, which totally contradicts what I just said! I think I'm messed up in the head!
anatevka anatevka
41-45, F
3 Responses Dec 19, 2007

I think you don't love that man so much.

You're not messed up. I've been involved with a married man for the last five years and it is nice to know that there is someone out there that loves you and you can be with and feel good with, but that you don't have to wash his dirty underwear, but then again you find yourself asking, "Welllll, would it really be that bad to wash his dirty underwear?"

because you have been with a married man does not means you are messed up in the head, it could mean that you can't commit to a long term relationship