He Is My Best Friend, and My Boyfriend.

I met him when he was 18 and I was 24, and we became close friends that year.  Later on we recognized that we loved each other, and a year and a half later we are still very, very happy.  But a small part of me feels that if it took me this long to know what I really wanted, how can he be sure that he's done looking?  I know I should give him credit for knowing -- I really want to avoid acting all "just wait 'til  you're older" -- but honestly, I was confused when I was his age.  I want to spend my life with him, but I also want him to really be sure that it's what he really wants.

allimarie allimarie
26-30, F
1 Response May 7, 2007

That's pretty insightful, but how are you going to know?