Well, I Have been married for 9 years. Almost 4 years ago, my hubby made friends with a guy, I'll call "jake". Jake Is smart, funny and adorable. I still love my husband very much, and don't plan to leave him for Jake. But when Jake comes around, we seem to have some connection. We have a lot in common, and he seems to talk to me more than my hubby. I also dream of him nearly every night. It is a shame I can't have them both... LOL.