It Is An Amazingthing, To Finally Discover What Love Really Is And What It Means To Have A Best Friend

Now I have had a best friend, or at least I though that I did. Until the definition got completely changed. I thought a best friend was somebody that one would pal around with, a person you could hang with if you needed to talk about something personal, but not too personal. I thought that I had a pretty good understanding of love, what it involved, what was required and how it usually played out. But then everything was redefined. We used to make fun of these guys that would just meet some chick, go completely gaga over her and end up ...... well, to be blunt.. just plain whipped. I couldn't understand how they could forsake the guys, the parties , the girls.. I mean I would see them with their new girl friends. I mean really, they didn't look like anything special to me. But suddenly these guys would do ANYTHING for their new love. I use to think, what a bunch of ******* sickos. Never me! No way will I ever let some chick get here hooks into me that way. Until........


I have absolutely no clue when it happened. Hell, I don't even know how it happened. But it did. Yes call it what you will, but it's true. I admit it. I'm whipped LOL And damn proud of it. I met my best friend right here on EP On June 5, 2011. I didn't know what hit me until I was snagged. It is a strange thing to be 55 years old and find yourself in such a vulnerable predicament. Still it is nice to have an understanding as to why guys do the things they do for their significant others. I am sure there are others out there that are laughing their *** off right now at me. But I also know this, the ones that are laughing don't have a clue as to what they are missing. But someday I do hope they will. It is the first time that i have been able to share everything and feel comfortable about doing it.. I have been married 3 other times. But nothing compares to this. I swore that if got out of the last one that there was absolutely nothing, nohow , noway not ever would I do something as stupid and get hooked up with another woman. I have since discovered that our God has a huge sense of humor. Anyway, I am better because of it.