I Think I'm Crushing On Him.

Hello everyone,

I am new to Experience project and I have a confession to make. This guy (who I am going to name Ted) and I have been best friends ever since we were eight years old (we're both 23 now).  We have been through alot together growing up and we have always been very close. I would tell him things that I wouldn't usually tell other people but I feel so comfortable talking to him and vice versa. For almost 16 years people have been telling us that we are going to get together one day but we both brush it off. Lately , I am looking at him in a different light. I try to think of other men but for some reason its like I can't see myself without him. I know this is weird but its true. I want to tell him but I don't want to risk the friendship and he is the best friend that I have ever had. Although both of us say that this is just a friendship my heart is saying something else. I don't know what to do. Besides, the other day he kept on looking into my eyes and I kept on looking away. I don't know what's wrong with me. Please help. Thank you.

Ttoya23 Ttoya23
1 Response Mar 15, 2009

thats great you two were friends first. At least you have some foundations to fal into if you do get involve. Most people are complete stranger and have to be friends first. You just went backwards. Ask him out.