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I Am In Love With My Coworker. But He Seems to Avoid Close to Me Now ..

I think I am in love with a colleague who sits just behind me in the office. But I don't know what he feels. That makes me feel so sad everyday. Being so close but feeling so far away makes me suffer and sad. 

Does he like me? Can we end up to a long term relationship, marriage? What the consequence is if the relationship ends to opposit direction than what I wish? Those questions confuse me. I am thinking about him and caring about him for a tiny details, but at the same time, while we are alone I pretend careless. I am afraid that my emotions will bring him burden...    

How does he react? I don't really know. Seems in the beginning he was quite happy with me. For example such as he asked me to play floor ball together. After he knew that I had not been skiing before, he said 'maybe we can go skiing once'. In fact I said 'yes'. But nothing happened. I don't know why. Probably he was just not serious. For several occasions, we were looking at each other directly into eyes. But I am not sure if my feeling is right. Because I am into him, my judgement maybe not true.

I was moving two monthes ago. He was about to ask to help out... I had some problems with my apartment after moving, he was giving a lot of advices which I appreciated. I invited him and other colleagues for a house warming party. He seemed very happy to join. But it didn't happen before vacation because the other people could not come. I was a little bit afraid of being alone with him also afraid of expose my feeling to him. So I postponed the party till now...

Then, we both had a long summer vacation. When we came back, he was a kind of nice in the beginning. Then, because I might have said some stupid things or there is some other reason, he was a kind of cold to me now. Then, I was trying to ignore him when we were in corridoor. I think now, he is a kind of ignore me as well...

What is he thinking? He might have same concsern as I do? What I shall do ...

 

clare2009 clare2009 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 16, 2009

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First and foremost office romances are really in poor taste for that very reason , if something goes wrong tha person is there and you see them all the time and work and outside of work and if your office has policies regarding romance in the work place then you both could be putting your very jobs in jepardy is it really worth it ??? Is the risk worth the reward? People talk , women talk guys talk and the next thing you know , people know the intimate details of your sexual exploits. My advice , go to work do your job PERIOD!!! there is an old saying you dont S*** where you eat.

Help! Anybody help me? We stop talking to each other now, he stops looking at me even we meet in corridor. He was so nice to me, but now, he seems not care at all ...