Confused**

So where to start, I am a junior in high school, and my one class got a new teacher this year... from the first moment I walked in the room I realized something. At first he was sitting in the back of the room observing the class while another teacher was teaching us, and I looked back and every time I look back our eyes met, and I got this instant feeling. I know my story isn't as deep and amazing as the others but the connection I felt is crazy. As the days started to turn into weeks I noticed how much he looked at me, even my friends started to point it out. If i'm not even in the conversation he still will be looking at me. At first I was a little creeped out because he was asking me all these personal questions, but then I just couldnt wait for him to know more, and I wanted to know more about him. If I didnt go in his room all day he would want to know where I was because he didnt see me. Whenever I was having a bad day or didnt feel well, he just wanted to know if I was okay and would sit there to talk to me. He always flirts with me during class, and my friend asked if I was reading into it until she saw it one day too. 2 weeks ago was our prom and my date ditched me the day before prom, and I was so upset but he sat there and just talked with me. I read this one story on here today about a NYC trip and how close they got, that whats I want. Other days he will seem distant and not look at me or talk to me as much. These feelings are getting deeper and deeper and I dont know what to do. I just want to know how exactly he feels. there is so much more to the story but this is already long and boring enough. For those in a similar situation can you tell me how you became closer with the teacher you liked.
Nik1love3 Nik1love3
18-21, F
4 Responses May 8, 2012

Wow! You´re so lucky that your teacher ACTUALLY seems to be reciprocating some if not all your feelings!<br />
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I agree with shhgossipgirl up there. The reason he sometimes gets distant is because every now and then he realizes what he´s doing. He´s flirting with a student and not only that, but he seems to LIKE his student, very much. I guess he suddenly gets scared that this might develop too fast and you guys could get into trouble, which you could if it went any further as it is.<br />
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My advice would be not to stop this little relationship you´ve got with him now, just don´t push it too far as of right now. I know it´s hard to resist temptation, but trust me, it´s the best choice to make in the long run. You should read a story posted up here called "My Love Was Taken Away" so you understand better WHY it´s so important for you not to make a move on him at the moment.<br />
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Now, what you SHOULD do is keep doing exactly what you guys have done until now: talk with him, flirt with him, laugh with him, share with him. Try and be one of his top students, if not the top. Teachers really set you appart and appreciatte it when you show an interest in their class because most of the times only three students are actually paying attention to his lecture while the rest 27 morons are counting the seconds til recess.<br />
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MOVE MOUNTAINS IF YOU HAVE TO IN ORDER TO HAVE HIM AS YOUR TEACHER FOR THE REST OF HIGHSCHOOL.<br />
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If you can´t, try and still keep in touch somehow by, I don´t know, participating in projects that involve his subject or something.<br />
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Either way, you will get closer and closer with time, and your relationship will develop naturally. The funny thing is, you won´t need to kiss or do anything amorously obvious (even though you´re DYING to do it thought xd) to get closer. You will just FEEL it. This connection stronger than anything you´re ever experienced before. You will be dying to talk with him because talking with him will become easier and easier with time.<br />
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My last piece of advice is for you to continue this until graduation day. I know it seems like a long time, but it won´t be as bad as it seems if you do what I told you above. You will have him, you just won´t be able to freely express it until then.<br />
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After you´re 18 and you graduate, everything is fine. You can go and shout it to 7 seas and there´s nothing anyone can do. It´s wonderful XD.<br />
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Don´t tell him before that, alright? By doing so, you´re putting him in a very, VERY difficult decision, since he is obliged by his contract to tell someone about it and probably distance himself from you afterwards, if you´re a minor.

Thank you but, but read my other story...

Wow! You´re so lucky that your teacher ACTUALLY seems to be reciprocating some if not all your feelings!<br />
<br />
I agree with shhgossipgirl up there. The reason he sometimes gets distant is because every now and then he realizes what he´s doing. He´s flirting with a student and not only that, but he seems to LIKE his student, very much. I guess he suddenly gets scared that this might develop too fast and you guys could get into trouble, which you could if it went any further as it is.<br />
<br />
My advice would be not to stop this little relationship you´ve got with him now, just don´t push it too far as of right now. I know it´s hard to resist temptation, but trust me, it´s the best choice to make in the long run. You should read a story posted up here called "My Love Was Taken Away" so you understand better WHY it´s so important for you not to make a move on him at the moment.<br />
<br />
Now, what you SHOULD do is keep doing exactly what you guys have done until now: talk with him, flirt with him, laugh with him, share with him. Try and be one of his top students, if not the top. Teachers really set you appart and appreciatte it when you show an interest in their class because most of the times only three students are actually paying attention to his lecture while the rest 27 morons are counting the seconds til recess.<br />
<br />
MOVE MOUNTAINS IF YOU HAVE TO IN ORDER TO HAVE HIM AS YOUR TEACHER FOR THE REST OF HIGHSCHOOL.<br />
<br />
If you can´t, try and still keep in touch somehow by, I don´t know, participating in projects that involve his subject or something.<br />
<br />
Either way, you will get closer and closer with time, and your relationship will develop naturally. The funny thing is, you won´t need to kiss or do anything amorously obvious (even though you´re DYING to do it thought xd) to get closer. You will just FEEL it. This connection stronger than anything you´re ever experienced before. You will be dying to talk with him because talking with him will become easier and easier with time.<br />
<br />
My last piece of advice is for you to continue this until graduation day. I know it seems like a long time, but it won´t be as bad as it seems if you do what I told you above. You will have him, you just won´t be able to freely express it until then.<br />
<br />
After you´re 18 and you graduate, everything is fine. You can go and shout it to 7 seas and there´s nothing anyone can do. It´s wonderful XD.<br />
<br />
Don´t tell him before that, alright? By doing so, you´re putting him in a very, VERY difficult decision, since he is obliged by his contract to tell someone about it and probably distance himself from you afterwards, if you´re a minor.

I think you just have to go with the flow. If it's meant to be, you'll get there. Clearly, he's keeping some distance because every now and then, beyond that sweet flirtings and fantasy moments, he realizes what his job desc<x>ription is and what's your relation to him. Otherwise, he's completely lost in your beauty. Hope my opinion helps! :)

I hope your opinion is right, I would wait however long it takes just to get close to him, last week we watched a movie everytime I looked back he was just staring at me smiling. And I would just get butterflies.

That's nice and that's actually a good sign! I used to get that kind of eye-lock moments and I know the feeling. But like I said, he realizes what his relationship with you is and maturely acts upon it. It wouldn't be smart to do anything like telling him, as for now. But maybe someday, when you graduated. Maybe even, he's the one who'll make the first move, you don't say. Hopefully, you'll have him next year as well. Best of luck on that and on everything :)

I have really deep feelings for my teacher too. He is very special and different from all the other guys I know. If you want to get closer to your teacher, just talk to him and have fun. Thats all I can say, thats all I can do. I want to get closer with my teacher as well and I dont know what else to do. Good Luck.

Good Luck to you too!! At times he tends to be distant if we flirt too much. But I try to and if I dont go in his room before his class, he sits there and asks where I was all day and pretty much wants to know my life story. I just hope to get closer to him