IM So Confused!!

Please help me figure out what to do. He is 25 I am 16. I have fallen very madly in love with him. He is single and beautiful. I love everything about him. And i want to sing it to the world!! But i cant. Because of the situation. My friends say there is a fire in his eyes when he looks at me so they know he likes me too. But I NEED TO KNOW HOW HE FEELS. Summer is getting near, and i hate to be away from him, so im going to be screwed. I sink into a mini depression on the weekends....Its horrible....

Bottom line....I want to tell him how i feel, but I dont because of everything that could go wrong. Not rejection, if he dont want it thats fine. I just want him to be happy. Im talking about reputations, jobs, lifestyles, JAIL....I couldnt live with myself if that happened. But im afraid if i wait until graduation like the original plan then it will be too late. I need to know what to do or where this thing could go.. Please help me.. thanks

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7 Responses Feb 22, 2009

I used to be in your situations...but nine years apart isn't really that bad. I fell for a teacher of mine when I first had him and when I graduated my heart pained me and when I knew I was going to go see him my heart achs and I get excited. When I'm with him I feel as though we are supposed to be together. One of my co-workers who actually works in the school system and will be finding out information for me, she's all for the relationship if he feels the same way for me. Though we always tease each other and he gives me these looks that takes my breath away. I know I can't live like this forever so I'm going to have to tell him how I feel...believe it or not, I found out, there are many teacher and former students who actually get comes in different ways and we can't help who our hearts fall for. Its the pits, buts we have not control over love. But good luck with your situations and everything.

You know, I really really really love my teacher until now, but when I see my ex-teacher (he used to teach me) I can't even feel sad. I always smile.<br><br />
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and I like one of my friends now. what I can do is that I keep aside my feelings in the corner of my heart and move along. it takes time for me to do it.<br><br />
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If I were you, I would just ask him, in a joking tone, of course,<br><br />
"what if a student confessed her love to you one day? what will your reaction be?"<br><br />
and if he answers negatively and ask why, tell him, <br><br />
"nah, just wanna know."<br><br />
<br><br />
well, that's if I were you.<br><br />
I loved 2 teachers before. once were the age of my parents, another one is the one I can't forget until now.<br><br />
<br><br />
that teacher that is the age of my parents were so kind to me and I was so SURE that he likes me as how I liked him.<br><br />
but, at the end, he turned colder and I had to ask,<br><br />
"What am I in your eyes?"<br><br />
and he answered, <br><br />
"a student."<br><br />
<br><br />
and I left, crying, for some time, then think through it. well, I had to get through it. now, we are just teacher and student.<br><br />
<br><br />
you know, you are pretty kind to tell yourself that you are not making him go to jail.<br><br />
that you thought of that.<br><br />
Well, for now, what you have to do is you have to make sure he felt for you the same as you do to him, and then think of what you both want to do later on.

you need to find an outlet hun, find something that completly consumes you that is unrelated to school and most especially unrelated to him otherwise you will slip into a depression over the summer just like I did, dont try to get over him, try to immerse yourslelf in something and eventually you will forget about your feelings for him.<br />
Good luck sweetie =]

you have to wish the summer to get soon<br />
believe me one day that will disgust u nd you'll try ur best 2 forget that u loved him someday <br />
that time u'll notice that u've grown old !!!<br />
wish u the best gurl :D

Painful as it may be, I think its the best course of action here for both you and him...<br />
If you love him, learn to let him go.

Your teacher could go directly to jail! That's where it could go.<br />
Do not act on any of these feelings. <br />
Do not approach your teacher with this.<br />
You do not need to know "how he feels" he's an adult and can not have any legitimate feelings toward you.<br />
Please ... just let it go!

Honey your way too young for him. What do your parents think of this? I went through this and was told to get over it or they were going to put him in jail.<br />
Neither of you need the problems. There will plenty of men when you are old enough believe me. Do not ruin both your lives!