Im In Love

We are in love, But i have always had thoughts in the back of my mind that hes mean to me... but he has his moments and then hes sweet and nice then he will just say some random thing to put me down and make me feel awful... he tells me he loves me and i loves him... i dont think im suposed to have to tell myself im to sensitive or hes just kiding to make mslef fell better... my friends and family love him and his friends love me... i dono... but im in love... i think im just scared
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4 Responses Sep 7, 2006

He doesnt love you. People reflect how they feel about themselves in the way they treat others.<br />
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He can't love you because he doesn't love himself.<br />
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I have been there. I know.

I've dated a guy exactly like that. In my experience he really just didn't respect women and didn't think what he said was wrong. I'd watch out for guys like that, because they can get worse. In my case his lack of respect meant he had no reason not to cheat on me. I hope that isn't the case for you.

I've been there too, it hurts alot doesn't it? I think you should tell him how you feel, and ask why he say's things that are hurtful,,I found out from the person I asked, well, he didn't love me as much as I loved him.<br />
Good luck :)

You should tell him that some of his comments are hurtful, even if he is joking. For it to truely be joking, both people involved need to feel like it's joking and funny. It shouldn't be one sided. If he loves you, he will understand.