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I Love My Cousin

When i was 11 yrs old i lived with my grandpa for 1 yr and i have a crush on my first cousin but at that time we are not close to each other rarely to see each other then i left that place this april i am now 16 and she is 17 i came back and we began to be close we always flirt heavily with each other when im with her i feel strange i feel like im in love with her but she is my first cousin we have the same last name   = (   i only have 1 week to be with her but it was heaven... we slept in the same bed ( but with my younger brother,lol nothing happened) but when we are on the bed flirting i held her hands and she didnt do anything or react, i know she have a crush on me she told me that im cute.. and i told her that she is my type of girl.. 1 day before we leave we have a family reunion in the beach and (away from other relatives)i thank her for being so good to me she said thats nothing.. and my father told her we are coming back this december i said maybe when i come back i have a GF she replied when you gono have a GF i want you to make sure that she is as beautiful as your sister i replied in my place there are lots of beautiful girls more beautiful than my sister and you (my cousin) she stare at me and told me to STAY but i told her NO i have to go... that moment was so romantic for me and when the time i have to go i was very sad and i saw my cousin so sad too before i left she told me to come with her to ride with her but i refused cause the pain is tearing me up it's so hard to say goodbye i never had a chance to say goodbye = ( ... i dont know if in that moment when she asked me to ride with her she's gono tell me something.. since then i never saw her again but im still madly inlove with her.. its been 8 months i have been involve to lots of girls and 3 of them i fell inlove with but im still madly inlove with my cousin!! i told my friends about this and they're all negative about this i told them i love my cousin so much that it makes me love the world that i hate..i love her so much that if it is wrong to love her then i dont wana be right... So sad i never told her what i feel before i left her.. this december i dont know what will happen if im going to be broken hearted or what..im so afraid that she doesnt feel the same and see me only as a cousin because i dont know if girls can easily fell inlove with heavily flirt with their crushes. but what i know is i love my cousin and i have to tell her no matter what.. Thats all i can remember.... thank you all for reading my story....

batusay07 batusay07 16-18, M 40 Responses Nov 19, 2006

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First of all, there is no switch in a person's head that turns on and off the "romance" option of the brain when it comes to family members. What makes a person more or less sexually attracted to another person is familiarity. When a person is physically and constantly around someone so much that they become comfortable to the point that sex does not exist, especially when it comes to nudity and if he contact between them starts when they are children, before or close to that time in their age when they have no concept of what sexual or romantic attraction is. The more contact a person has with another person, the less the likelihood of there becoming a sexual connection where a sexual relationship could exist. The less the amount of physical contact a person has with another person the more the likelihood that a sexual relations could exist.
This is why those who have close friends of the opposite sex are not sexually attracted (or at least not attracted to the point of wanting a sexual relationship) to that friend and why couples who have been together for a long period of time have to find ways of adding more sexual spark into their relationship. Same goes with family; mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, nieces, nephews, uncles and cousins. The fact of the matter is that it happens all the time and a lot more often than most people would like to admit and mostly because of the boundaries we set within our own families because the negative stipulations put on this kind of encounter and the fear that that type of encounter might occur.

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same sitwasyon with me

hi i went through the same thing but i was 11 then 14 we always liked eachother

hey i have noon my 2nd cousin for years and over the years we have got really close,and it has just builded up from there. and got closer n closer and i started to have feelings for her...then within 1 year or so of getting closer n closer,spending more time together,talking more, i hade fellings i cant explain when i was with her, when i wasent with her i felt so lonley, depressed and empty like if there was somthing missing in my life. well there was and it was her she mad me so happy ever time i seen her face or even heard her voice on the phone (ete) she used to tell me she loves me and i would tell her i love yu too but it would allways play on my mind if she really means it like we were soul mates and made for each ether (ete) and its like she is my heart shes the part of me that is keeping me alive. i cant explain how much i love her..(but she is with someone already and i hate him but we get along)

Hi I am 18 and my first cousin is 19 it started five years ago when she moved from another state and she had moved in a few miles from me at first I never had any feelings for her we were just good best friends and I use to stay with her every weekend but one night she had gotten very horny and gave me a lap dance after that I did not know what to think as a few months went on I would have her kiss my cheek and hurry and kiss her on the lips then we made out for the first time and that where it all started we would full around a lot and do things that cousins should not do like she had given me head for the first time.and I had lost my virginity to her. after that I had been having feelings for her she told me that we can not be together because we both know that are family and friends will not approve so my feelings for her just been going up and down these past couple of years but a couple of weeks ago I had cuttle with her in my bed and made out with her and I just can not get her out of my head We get along so well we never fight she is defently atracting to me and she is my type no other girl I have ever met or ever meet will be the same as her i think she feels the same way about me but not as bad as I do.every time I look at her gorgeous green eyes I get very depressed and sometimes suicidal because i know That i can never be together with her all want is to be with her for the rest of my life and if I could have that then I would be the happiest man on earth. I know these feeling are wrong but I do not know what to do

Its not wrong. Your family is wrong. Think about it...... Whats so bad about liking someone made by different parents that only has the same grandparents? Nothing. Only the possibility that you will get webfeet children. Get away from everybody with her, I'm sure you wont ever regret it.

same here...i m 17 i love my cousin of 14 yrs of age

Im in love with my cousin.. Hes 15 and im 14.. Ive been in love with him since i was 11. I tried to push him away from my thoughts by going after this other boy. Then me and that boy broke up and i decided to tell my cousin i had feelings for him. His reaction was I love you too. And i loved you since i was 12. It was like meant to be. But im scared that God doesnt want us to be together :[ But anyways now im dating him and not many people know but everyone who does thinks its wrong. Except my friend shes understands that its true love.. And she thinks its cute.

Im in love with my cousin.. Hes 15 and im 14.. Ive been in love with him since i was 11. I tried to push him away from my thoughts by going after this other boy. Then me and that boy broke up and i decided to tell my cousin i had feelings for him. His reaction was I love you too. And i loved you since i was 12. It was like meant to be. But im scared that God doesnt want us to be together :[ But anyways now im dating him and not many people know but everyone who does thinks its wrong. Except my friend shes understands that its true love.. And she thinks its cute.

I have a huge crush on my cousin... hes 19, im 13... ok, that sounds gross but trust me he's well hot. I dont think he likes me though :( ...

Like you, I rarely see my cousin (about once a year) but when I see him I just can't explain the feeling. I don't think he likes me though and I am 8 years younger than him. I dont know why I like him though and the last time I saw him he already had a girlfriend but I don't know if he still has her. I am way out of his league but I still like him even though I am sure there is no possible way that we can be together... unfortunately :( I still have a huge crush on him and im only 13. Ok, it sounds gross but seriously he well hot lol :P

hi guys....guess we all have the same problem....i'm 18 and my 1st cousin is 21 .......i didn't know why....why her.....it's hard for me to live in a same house with her coz it hurts me a lot, thinking that what i feel for her is wrong ....i dont know how to live my life without her ,,,i cant imagine how miserable would it be......her parents send me to close and provide for my needs,,,,we live in the same house,same room,and sometimes same bed if somebody in our relatives will visit us and will use her sisters room,,,,and her sister will use her bed and we will share in my bed....i want to forget her but i dont know how....what really hurt is ...she doesn't appreciate the things that i do to her ....that even her sister wont do for her and can't do it for her......the fact that she does't like me..and the fact that I'M IN LOVE WITH MY FIRST COUSIN...:(AND WERE BOTH GIRLS:(...and cant even say thank in her troubled times that im the only one beside her...comforts her.....i dont know what to do when she finds the right guy for her............i cant fight this feeling anymore......I NEED YOU'RE HELP GUYS............

Ok, well I think you don't want to be lesbian so go search for a guy everyday. I'm sure you'll find the right one.

i went through the same thing.. me and my cousin. we're first cousins... it started off as two young kids just playing together. though as we got older, i realized i was falling in love with him. i was fifteen, we shared our first kiss. i felt electricity that day. and then, when i was 16, we came close to having sex. we were making out...all over each other. we were both virgins. so he never got in me.. he came on my leg..but it's alright. we were always together after that. right up till i was 19.. then i was forced away. my mother stopped letting me go to my dad's house.. which was the only way i could see my cousin. she stopped letting me go when her and my dad began fighting.<br />
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it took this last two years discovering that i wasn't wanted at my dad's all this time. i made the call for my dad to come see me having just gotten out of an abusive environment. he said he'd show up with my cousin. he never showed up. i sat outside in the pouring rain for hours waiting for him and my cousin. it took that happening for me to realize just how much i wasn't wanted around.<br />
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though i am moving on finally. i still hold the love for my cousin in my heart. it'll never go away. even now that i'm engaged to be married to another man, i still have that special love for my cousin.

Hmmm...we all are the same guys , why these cousins are so Lovable and Confusing?<br />
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Sometimes she pretends as your Sister and sometimes as she has got some feeling for you.<br />
She is 19 and i am just 17 but she lives in next door ...<br />
Within a day 7 times i have decided that i won't talk to her not even message , but i broke my own Promises. <br />
i am afraid that weather she says "i love you too"....but our relationship can't go further.<br />
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No one can help us Buddies...... : <<br />
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She is Impossible to be Forgotten but Try and be Fail... : )

Hmmm...we all are the same guys , why these cousins are so Lovable and Confusing?<br />
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Sometimes she pretends as your Sister and sometimes as she has got some feeling for you.<br />
She is 19 and i am just 17 but she lives in next door ...<br />
Within a day 7 times i have decided that i won't talk to her not even message , but i broke my own Promises. <br />
i am afraid that weather she says "i love you too"....but our relationship can't go further.<br />
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No one can help us Buddies...... : <<br />
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She is Impossible to be Forgotten but Try and be Fail... : )

omg!!... thats the closest story ive ever read in this site..... but my cousin is younger that me.... so i don't know what is running in her mind.... but im inlove with her.... Im gonna tell her this december too... its not the end yet...

hey i fully understaind i myself am in love with my first cousion and she feels the same as i do but both of us does not know what to do becuase my family would never agree with it yea we have shared the same bed cuddled and kissed but we dont know if we should take it further me and my cousion love each other so much its kills us both to be seperated but just like you were are stuck not knowing what to do i am 21 and she is 20

I'm in love with my second cousin, and I normally wouldn't have these feelings but i only met him when i was 9. He feels like a best friend because we lost out on those years. (we're long-lost cousins) Our families met and instantly bonded and it seems as though my uncle and my dad grew up together, even though they were in their late 30s when they met. <br />
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He''s so kind, sweet, funny and HOT. Even though there's a year between us we still get along better than anyone that i know. We've kissed several times and we've kissed passionately... we always talk about the possibility of spending our lives together and sex. He's the loveliest person with the best sense of humor. Even though we face these complications, there's no denying how we feel for each other.<br />
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It's our secret... the family just thinks we're close cousins.

i love my cousin too. dont even know if we are cousins but that what we say we are. i only know her as my relation, but i love her so much and i dont know how to tell her or what my other relative will say about it. i know she feel the same way too. she doesnt want me to have other girl friends. we cant stay a day without seeing each other. what can i do?

It's been awhile now.. didn't even thought i'll make it without her.. all this years... hahaha<br />
im in love with someone else now.. i love her so much.. and we r planning to be married soon(I Hope so).<br />
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for those who experiences and will experience the same thing that i did experienced years ago..<br />
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This is how the story ends!!<br />
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I came back 1 and 1/2 years after..<br />
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everything about her changed..<br />
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she had gone wild.. having alot of boys.. not to mention what i observed she's been addicted to sex..<br />
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i told her i love her and i don't want to see her like that.. LOL she got mad at me hahahaha!!<br />
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3 years have passed..<br />
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im inlove with my girl now.. i returned.. not intentionally.. and figured out she's now a mom(a single parent) sad for her.. i pitty her.. so that's the lesson.. as i observe.. sex turns good girl into wild girls hahaha.. so if ever you will have sex with a good girl(virgin) please be responsible for her and marry her if possible.. cuz u'll make her life a waste..<br />
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a word of advice for newbies!<br />
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GO FOR IT!!!! so you will not regret anything.. fight for what you believe and what you feel!<br />
the outcome can be good or bad.. but that's not the point.. the point is you will not regret it and you will be able to coop with it if it turns bad..<br />
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Test your love.. find someone else and try to love him/her because people seems to want/love what they don't have.. and ignore those what they do have..<br />
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try to listen to this...<br />
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iL_R---mDhc<br />
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its gonna make sense - Michael Learns to rock<br />
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you know someday you'll realize.. It makes sense.. she left for a purpose in your life.. so u'll find better one...<br />
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Thnx to those who commented on my experience..<br />
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GoodLuck Guys!!!! hope you find the answers to your questions in life!!!

im in love with my 3 cousin we both have told each other how we feel bout each other and we plan to be hooking up and sneaking around but i want to tell these word im in love with her and out of 40 billion people in the word i only want her ive become really really close to her and she is 28 and im 20 she has kid and i already feel as her is mine i want to be there for her and her kid i love them both but the thing is we are not blood related just family wise related we both want to be with each other as bf and gf

I have the same problem here is y story look i love him i feel so well when im close to him whe i see him omg i=my heart neets so fast i lsot my mind he is 13 im 12 and tomorrow im going to a course with my friend and i will see him i think he will ask me to go out with my friend and she is the best friend i have ever had i dont know what to do i also want to tell to him but how i can't i took quizzes does he like me but i doesnt help plz help me im so nervous how can i take hm off my mind

I can understand the love and compassion of a cousin. Me and my cousin have been together for a year now. We have decided to get married in March 2010. You know when it is right with your cousin when that person has been your best friend for over 30 years. I am 3 years older, but she has always been the one I wanted to be with whether it be when I was 6 years old playing in the sand box or at our Grandfathers funeral to be there to console each other. we had continued to stay in touch all those years between our career paths and the 2000 mile difference in living arranements. We have been there for each other when times have been at theree worse with divorces on both sides in years past. The key to our relationship is the communication with one another. from the phone calls 3-4 times a day to the flowers or cards we send each other. It is the little things that keeep us so absolutely in love with each other. She will be moving out here in a couple of months, and then we can get our lives started.

I am in love with my first cousin! Very very in love! We are both adults with grown kids. We didnt grow up together and met a few months ago. He is everything I could ever want. We havnt told our families yet. We plan to soon. If they arnt happy with it then they dont deserve us! This is the real thing beyond a shadow of a doubt!

i fell the same way we both are afther a girl

this is the worst i am a gay and i love my first cousin uhuh. im 20 and he's 18 actually i posted my story here. well i really love my cousin i know it's wrong but i can't control my feelings for him. hes not gay but i feel that he cares for me too. he had a vacation in our city and we sleep together in my room. i can't say that im happy because of the situation but im in love.<br />
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wel read my story. i want also an advice. thanks you.

this is the worst i am a gay and i love my first cousin uhuh. im 20 and he's 18 actually i posted my story here. well i really love my cousin i know it's wrong but i can't control my feelings for him. hes not gay but i feel that he cares for me too. he had a vacation in our city and we sleep together in my room. i can't say that im happy because of the situation but im in love.<br />
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wel read my story. i want also an advice. thanks you.

none of you understand my cousins 32 and im 13 and im madly in love with him + he is paralyzed and i live 3 hours away 4rm him and right now im getting sick over it

i think can relate to that too.. but i suggest to keep it to yourself and try not to be involved with her no matter what.., because you have to know that your feelings will all be for nothing..

well you should go for it,cuz im engaged with my cousin and its the best feeling, if you love some1 it doesnt matter if its ur cousin. its like when they say age doesnt matter thats how cousin relationships dont matter when you love someone. i hope for the best and gd luck. im 16 and engaged but im soo happy. shes sweet and kind.