Does My Cousin Love Me Or What?

Me and my cousin were close since birth... im just one year older than him. as we grow our closeness grow also. we sleep together play together having fun togeth, we really spent each time we meet together.when i was 15yrs. old and he was 14yrs. old I notice the way he look on me is so different. i can say that behind those looks toward me has a great meaning. everytime he was looking at me like that it's like im going to melt and i can't look back also. and when i capture him that he was looking on me he will look away. i join a televison txting online and he was saying me that he will join also to that txting channel and his nickname will be aiori. and then one night there is someone whose nickname was aiori and his message was. i love you..and then the next messeage if only you are not my cousin. and then another txt massage saying if only i'm not your cousin. when i read that message i keep telling on my mind that is not my cousin it can't be there's a million people who will be using that nickname. after that we saw each other he keep talking and talking on me,, we always like that when we meet telling our stories for the past days that we are not together..and i did not replying to all his stories because i'm still thinking what i have read on the television. maybe he notice it and he decide that we should have some fun play a computer games or playstation but i said sorry not in the mood to play. starting that incident the closeness we have has lost. lost so quickly. at the his age of 16 and i was 17 that closeness was back again it was little sister birthday and all of my cousin decide to sleep in the same room,he and my brother where drinking in that room and when we finally decide to sleep he sleep beside me. he was tickling me he is flirting with me i can say lol. and then suddenly i pretend that i was already sleeping he stop flirting with me and he hug me. my heart beat so fast i was so nervous when he hug me because i felt something wierd. i tried to remove his arms around me and when i finally remove it a seconds later he hug me again at that moment i know he is not sleep he is pretending to be asleep.i decide just go to sleep. and when i wake up his arms are still around me and when his sister finally wake up he quickly remove his arms on me. and i whispher thank god.and when his sister walk out on the room i felt his hand was on my belly almost down to my... and then i finally get up to the bed and i was looking on him and he put a big smile on his face all day long when i was looking at him he always give me that big smile. i wondering why? after that everytime that we are together and when its time to sleeping he realy sleep always beside me but he move away when his sister is also beside me. and i notice it when there oppurtuniy when we are alone. he holds my hand example when he ask me to get that thing for him instead of the object he will be holding he will hold my hand. what confused me the most is the way he stares at me was so different. i know theres a lot of meaning on it.. he realy flirts at me everytime he is drinking. maybe becuse he was influence by the alcohol. and he was so gentleman on me. everytime i ask him forsomething he will gave it to me. that's why if my other cousin wants something for him they will request me to talk to him for them because they said that i was his favorite and he cannot resist me.. come on tell me why? if he continous like this might love him more than a cousin. and i don't want that to happen.. what do you think does he like me more that a cousin.. i need your coment thanks for reading may story ''chao"
windgodess windgodess
18-21, F
30 Responses Apr 10, 2007

You and your cousin should get alone and tell him how you feel about him then kiss him as long as nobody knows what do you have to worry about

that was DUMD…he DONT lyke u hes ur cousin…FOOL!!!!! O_o

welll. in my case is a little different, my cousin n i r 15 now n since we were 13 i liked him n till now i still do n the only one who actually knows is my oldersister. n till now whenever we cousin all meet up i feel weird n not talk cos i am scared i say smthin wrong.. but i guess u should ask him out but provided when ur think ur break up it shouldnt be weird but should try to be normal.. i have this friend who liked her cousin n dated him but when they broke up it was akward meetin each other again

Don't hide from the truth. If he doesn't have any intention of hurting you or being annoying and only is respecting you. You should ask him out immediately.

i had a dream i had sex with my cousin and i talk in my sleep and she was in the room so i think she may have heard me say her name or something.a couple days later she kinda ignored me.im embarrassed that she heard me im sooooo sad

@Fever4hondagirl im not sure.........but i think u should ask him out....u dont get life again and again

strange.......yours and mine pretty same.....and i am also not sure if i am in love with her or not....she jst tells that she likes me...that's i intend to b frnds thes yrs

I have a similar issue, but mine is a little different...probably from most people. My cousin and I live together. He moved in with me and my immediate family a few months ago due to his own issues in life. I was nervous at the thought of him moving in because I had already had these feelings for him for years. I was also excited because it would give us a chance to get closer. I have been hiding my feelings from everyone for my entire life. It eats me up inside. When he and I are together, it's just like we are made for each other. We get along so well, and have a lot in common. I try to make subtle passes at him like flaunting, flirting, etc...and sometimes it seems like he's actually interested. The only problem is that his biological parents are cousins as well. So he might have extra strong feelings about this (along with our family). I just want him to love me as much as I love him. I wish he knew how I felt, but the risk of losing our friendship among other things is too great. I couldn't take it if e didn't feel the same way about me. I'd loose him forever, and I can't have that. I don't know what to do anymore, and I'm not sure how to test him to see if he feels the same way...does anyone have any advice?

how old are you and how old is your cousin ?

reading this type of stories make me wish you were my couin ;)

i know exactly how you feel, i was in the same situation as you were. he played around with me. our thing was wrestling until on night we got to close. one time we went on a family vacation and we were just laying in the grass and he said i love you. after that we had no communication until we saw each other again when we did i approached him and told him i loved him too. after that we'd sneak around. i think you should tell him if hes your bff then you should feel embarrassed or anything. go for it because love is love no matter what form

i know exactly how you feel, i was in the same situation as you were. he played around with me. our thing was wrestling until on night we got to close. one time we went on a family vacation and we were just laying in the grass and he said i love you. after that we had no communication until we saw each other again when we did i approached him and told him i loved him too. after that we'd sneak around. i think you should tell him if hes your bff then you should feel embarrassed or anything. go for it because love is love no matter what form

i know exactly how you feel, i was in the same situation as you were. he played around with me. our thing was wrestling until on night we got to close. one time we went on a family vacation and we were just laying in the grass and he said i love you. after that we had no communication until we saw each other again when we did i approached him and told him i loved him too. after that we'd sneak around. i think you should tell him if hes your bff then you should feel embarrassed or anything. go for it because love is love no matter what form

Listen, I don't understand why you people are giving this KID this kind of advice. First is he a second cousin? Second If no, then its against the law. Three If yes, then your family would probably not be happy with it but if its love its love. Four It is very common to have some sort of mixed feelings about cousins because they are family but more distant than brothers or sisters. Being family, you know them, you understand and can relate to them. When seeking a suitable mate having someone you understand and can relate with is the basis to a successful relationship. All I am trying to tell you is that your feelings are normal but a bit misplaced.

it matters what state you live in

I met my cousin after 6 yrs. he s 14 yrs elder to me, married with 2 cute little kids.He started flirting with me in ways like staring , complimenting me accidental touching(which i did not likein particular). All this happened over 2 weeks. Although i loved him wen i was younger but his behavior is making me uncomfortable.I never told him that i liked him but i guess it shows.He s also acting very possessively and wierd sometimes.He trying to control my life wanting to know when i get up and sleep . though he s extremely polite and nice to people around him. He also doesn t interfere in other peoples lives as much as he wants to mine. I feel like i don t have breathing space. now he s left abroad for his work he ll be back in 2 weeks and while leaving he said i ll see you on the festival.<br />
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I m scared to have him back in my life. I don t wnat to see him. My head is getting messed around.

Well it's been a few years since then and if u still don't know if he does then I would say he does a lot. I did the same and saw how my cousin reacted to it. She didn't go along with it at first but she did after a while. I finally got the gutz to tell her how I felt about her and she felt the same. So yes your cousin likes u, but if u like him... hug him back and hold his hand. If he really likes u he will tell u. But he won't if he thinks u r not interested. Good luck!

you cant choose who you love and who you dont,we shouldnt be binded by what the rules are now.2000 years ago jesus (if there was one idk) went against the rules of that time and changed the world.just if something does happen,tellin ppl wouldnt be good

I have a similar feeling towards my cousin. However, we have taken our relationship further. I know how you feel as it is how I used to feel when younger. I was attracted to him and I knew he liked me too. We didn't take things further for years even tho we both knew how we felt inside. I found it frustrating when I'd make it obvious to him (or so I thought) that I was ready for things to go further. This all started when I was 14 and he 15. Too young to know truly what we wanted but old enough to be aware of him physically. I remember getting into wrestling fights just to be able to touch and hold him although he was always so much bigger and stronger than me and this lead to the frustration of being pinned so I couldn't get at him. This all changed when one night after a party we crashed out in the same room. He tickled me as he often did and after I collapsed with kaughter we fell into a heap with him on top. I said this is nice and he sheepishly said yeah it is. I kissed him quickly and he looked surprised. Then he kissed me back and things just progressed from there. Make up your mind just what you want from him. If its a full relationship then let it grow. If not then keep your distance. Good luck

ok what i have to say is, i have been dating this person for 7 months and about two moths ago i found out we were cuzins. we loved each other before we knew why should it change. love is love. it shouldn't change for anything. all i have to say is be yourself and let your feelings for him come out becaues the last thing u want is to lose him.

i am 16 and my cousin is 14 and i think i like her more than a cousin she is my 2nd cousin and we spent a lot of time together and she shows me her bra and her panties and i dont know if she feels the same way about me please help me !!!!!!!!!!!

see u dont really have a problem<br />
my cousin did the exact same thing to me and he was not drunk<br />
im 13 and hes currenty 14 <br />
everything u said is waht he did with me and i ended up luving him much more then a cousin<br />
if u dont feel like that about him tell him cause he deffinately luvs<br />
dont worry<br />
and if he does something bad to u that u dont like i would stay away from u

its the same case with me!.. he even kissed me the last time i met him. but then he never talks abt it..i really dont know wht he thinks.. but m in love with him :).. plz help me

Yeah he probably does like you but is afraid to admit it because he knows he is your cousin....why are you afraid to love him more then a cousin?....

loojk do u want him as a cousin or as a boy

look!!!!!<br />
do u love him as a cousin or as a boy<br />
but tell you something he likes you alot

wow! by the way he treats u, i think he does love u more than just a cousin. if u like him, i think u should tell him cuz i bet he feels the same way. u guys should be happy together. :)

I think your problem is not exactly same as you are projeting to your selfcautious mindset. Not only your cousin but u also are just enterred in that part of life where first time we feel about the natural interaction b/w male or female. Never forget adolescent age is a very energetic period of ones life. and ofcourse it's completey in your hands whether in which direction u want to start buildup of your aim, your want to be type desires, your interactional behaviour with oeopple etc. Your cousin is not liable for his acts as because everybody will say after anything happene, that bboyh of u have reached the age of puberty. and so it can be easy for both of you that if u can carry a relation of something like having enjoyment more than just talk or to be gettogether almost every time, or having greed about to feel physically, or wshing experienc eachoher , than simultaneously have it in your mind talso hat these things in which both of u are greedy to get feeling extremum love is just an activity of having real life fun and nothing else.... ok<br />
just think about you and take decision abt whatever are your requirements and u will realize <br />
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oh... that is the way on which I am going out to spend myY adultism. <br />
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I am sorry to say but as a friend who has a feeling care about you, My advice is that get enjoy your life yar...<br />
go ahead out of dark side of your mind and will definitely experin much meore happyness u'd ever felt. <br />
will get <br />
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Finally If u will get failed to do so than you will stop all bloom if you let the flowers go to seed

Oh, he's very interested in you. What do you want from the relationship?

i think i experienced all you says..don't be afraid to show your feeling... i love my cousin and now she's with other guy and me im with other girl.. i totally lost her but you don't lose him..ok?

i have a feeling that he likes you alot =]<br />
thats cute thats exactly how mi cousin and i started but i didnt resist it lol <br />
but now its more sexual and i can say that i am in love with him but i dont know if he is in love with me i dunno im 15 and he is 16 turning 17 in one month.<br />
if you are attracted to him go for it because you might find someone who u thought you could never find. but by wut you say i dont think you like him that much and its ok just tell him dont let him keep doing wut he is doing because your not interested<br />
hope this helps comment on mi stories =]

i think ur cousin love u a lot check ur self whether u love him or not orelse it is just and attraction if love him go beyond their is nothing wrong in this ,becoz love is blind