Pain & Sex

Is that a basic to believe in b/d? I have realized the pain helps take away everything except the pleasure. and my submissiveness makes me thoroughly pleased beyond imagination.
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3 Responses Jul 23, 2010

Yes, it is difficult.<br />
Jammer jy is so ver! = Sorry you are so far!<br />
Lol

And then there are those of us who crave it all -- the raw sexual energy that results from ceding absolute control to Another, the exhilarating highs described by My geliefde Oupa that are evoked when one is overwhelmed by extreme pain, and the mental liberation that can be brought about by being physically restrained.<br />
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The challenge for Me as has always been finding a Master who knows how and when to use bondage and pain as the means to My complete submission rather than just ends in and of themselves.

Yes, proper pain takes your mind over completely. Then there is no place for negative or worrying thoughts! It clears your head and makes you calm. Extra endorphins are released that give you the pleasant feeling. lol