Confused and Interested

Obviously u are not planning any kids or family. It's about sex, about pleasure and leisure. Sounds good for a while, but what next??

yeah, the right person could end up being a mutual love by both you and your husband.



People are often judgemental of things like this. They're just choosing to think in ways that they feel is comfortable, even if those choices in opinions allow them to feel superior to those who make decisions they do not think is right.



the world is just full of idiots.



but if you can find somebody who isn't an idiot, maybe you and your husband could get even more love than you currently have.

I think its a beautiful and unselfish thing to do. It will obviously add great strain to your husband and yourself, but every soul has a divine right to use this world as they so please and like I said it is very unselfish for you to want to share and be willing to risk such a happy relationship to learn to explore a deeper meaning in your lives. All I would caution is that you be sure your husbands feelings are 100 percent authentic, I would hate for a miscomunication on how he feels be the cause of big problems. As far as I think if everyone is completely honest about their intentions and feelings toward everyone else and mutual respect then there should be no major problems..... Hahahaha but of course I'm so young I have done no such thing! Good luck my lady!

A few years back, I dated a girl who was bisexual and she had a girlfriend at the same time. I agreed to it, and never asked for a threeway or ahything like that - I respected who she was, and we had a very healthy sex life and social life. I'm not the clingy type, but am very attentive and emotionally available and I never felt jealousy, or had any drama from her girlfriend. I think relationshipe like that can work with the right personality combinations. I got enough attention from her, and she got what she wanted from me. I think she was happier being involved with both sexes, and I liked seeing her happy. The three of us went out a couple of times, and hung-out a few times, but not often.

It worked out well, and if I met another girl who was bisexual, I'd encourage her to have a girlfriend. It's all in who you select and taking the time to chose well.

Sorry that I havent comment again...but it hasnt really worked out for us. We both have different taste from one another and we havent been able to find the one. The one that makes both of us happy. When we do find one then maybe I would love to share that story with everyone.

I feel that your heart is telling you that you need to share him to show him and yourself how deep your love and devotion is. This need needs to be fulfilled. Go for it! Find the right one and it may take a few bad ones before the Rose amongst the thorns is found. Search and you will fill right about it when it happens

If you invite another into your home it needs to be a final thought.Its not just taking it for a spin situation.

Once you open the door it is very hard to close it without

consequence.

Well it works differently in every situation. I haven't yet found the woman for our family. But we are still looking, and no matter what we wont lose hope. I know that it feels weird at first but you will have more to love in the end, and its that what love is really all about.

hi i have been reading about this and was wondering how things have worked out. i was apart from my husband for 20 months and now i need to share him with another. it feels awkward currently and i am willing to try. making him happy is important and protecting the children we have is also important.

please let me know.

Thank you for the website I know all about it. I have been there but I haven't yet made a post about looking for a sister wive. But I have thought about this alot and I am sure that this is what my family needs to be fulfilled. Thank you for the advice. I hope that you have found what you are looking for in your own personal searching.

Here is a link to a wonderful website that will help you in your decision: It's a great place to be! It's full of great information and insight into this life choice.

My husband and I made the decision to add another woman to our relationship on a serious basis and we've just started our search.

http://p221.ezboard.com/bsisterwives

Hey HT....Im the one Lexus was talking about! She sent me the link to your story! I am very happy for you that you have such a wonderful relationship with your husband as do I. I am also very bi-sexual. My husband and I came to an understanding that me being with a woman would be seperate from our relationship. I wanted to just have fun and enjoy another woman. A friend with benefits so to speak. This has not worked out well for me at all....the women I have chosen want more than just a friendship and drain me with their problems. I cant handle that and its taking its toll on my marriage because they have wanted my attention much more than I can give. My husband doesnt want to be involved in any relationship I might have with a woman....but yet he doesnt want to share my heart. He doesnt want competition so to speak. I am not looking to be with another man either......I have my husband. I dont understand this whole polygamy thing either. Most couples out there have jealousy issues......I know I do. I dont want my husband with another woman and he doesnt want me with another man. But he accepts my bi-sexuality as part of me. It came along with the package. Just make sure its what you want.....think long and hard before you do this. Things can become very complicated. I know from past experiences. Feel free to contact me anytime if you want to chat about this at all. Take care!!!



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I would love to listen to your friends experiences. I understand why people feel funny about this kind of thing but it wasnt something that I decided upon with haste. I have really thought about this and it wouldn't be fair for me to have a girlfriend on the side and him not to be able to. I know that most people are not like us and that is why I have made such a big deal about not getting my feelings confused.

Assumed it was your idea...:)



Strong willed I understand....just ask my friends...or JD...haha



I would encourage you talk with this friend of mine with an open mind....hopefully she will be online sometime today and will get my message about your post.



She has been in very similar shoes...might be a good idea just to listen to her experiences.

I have made this decision only because we agreed that we would just start out with a friend nothing sexually until we are all comfortable about it...and besides we haven't even found that person yet. I know that my man loves me and I am a very strong willed person. I have been thru alot in my life and I would never do anything just because he said so...this was my idea.

THere is someone here on Ep I would like for you to meet. I am going to send a link to this story to her profle. She insnt online just now but is a regular so will be sometime soon.



She and you seem to have a lot in common and she might can offer you some personal experience with this idea. Both positive and negative I imagine..:)

I have thought about this and the complications dont out weigh the way that I feel. I dont neccessarily mean that this person we have to be sexually active with. Just someone that can come and enjoy our lives with us as a friend at first. Something later on would be great only if we all have the same feelings about the subject. I believe that he deserves this and so do I. I love women as I have said and I need that womenly pressence in my life also, this isn't just about him having a second girlfriend. This is about both of us. We can't always be there for each other and another person would be able to help with that.

please be vey careful here....think this through...then think it through again....:)



Inviting a third into a realtionship at a minimum will add complications.