So basically I have found the most wonderful man ever. I am a 31 year old mother of two, and was unhappy in my last eight year relationship. I thought that I would never be able to love or trust another man ever, then I met Jon. He has showed me that there is really great, kind, honest, loving, and respectful men left out there. He has made me love myself again also, which has been great for our sex life. Then about a few weeks ago we were sitting down having a really indepth conversation about women, which he already knows that I adore. I made the comment that I would love to allow him to have a second girlfriend to bring over to have some fun with, someone to share all the happiness that we bring to each other. He is such a humble man that he said that he would never want to jeopardize our love life for something meaningless, but that if I wanted a girlfriend to love and share our love for each other together with than that would be great. So I started thinking and at first I thought that I would never be okay with some other women touching, loving, sharing my time with him, but then it hit me. I was being so selfish. He deserves the world and so do I. I love women just as much as he does and why not try to show someone else the love that we feel. I right at that moment realized that I wouldn't be losing him, but gaining someone else to love along with him. Making him happy is my number one priority but if I can also show someone else out there that there trully is love in this world that would be even better. That is what made me start searching for someone to share our lives with. We both deserve that women company that we both urn for so dearly. It doesn't have to be about sex, but about love and I know this now. I will love and cherish her just as much as he will. That is when I started looking into Polygamy, because like I said we don't want this female in our lives just because we want a playtoy but because we want to share the joy and love that we have for one another with someone else that we can love together.