Kinky Nj Weekend From My Blog

My Miss (Lydiab6) wanted me to write about our weekend together at the Brimstone kink event a couple of weeks ago. I'll start off by saying that it was an amazing time. We got there on Friday afternoon and stayed until late Sunday night and because we volunteered to help out with setting up classrooms, we got a huge discount. Pure awesomeness :).

Here is their description of the event:
First The basics -
Who - A group of the Northeast's finest alternative sex groups with experience in straight, gay, BDSM, fantasy roleplay and fetish areas. Management is provided by the Diogenes Group, Inc - a registered NJ Educational nonprofit

What - A three-day educational and social event with classes, workshops, parties, events, with a focus on meeting new people having fun and learning new skills

When - November 23-25, 2012

Rather than go through a blow by blow of the entire weekend, I'd rather just tell you what the highlights were for me. First let me say that you have to (and I have to, for that matter) read the Marketplace books and anything else by the author Laura Antoniou. Her talks were amazing and struck a deep chord in me. Everything she said was witty and true. Especially when she brought up the labels that are constantly attached to people in the bdsm community whether they want them or not. I loved her so amazingly much.

During the course of the weekend I was suspended by Miss 3 times! Each time she had me flying was better than the last. The last time I was up, she had me suspended for anywhere between 45 minutes to an hour. Or eternity if we were going by my internal clock. Her control over me that entire weekend and especially during that last suspension were nothing short of bliss for me. She had me completely in the palm of her hand. I was either tied up or made to feel like I was. Her hands constantly, groping, slapping, spanking me. Being paddled or flogged at a whim. Even the way she talked to me was more powerful. She had the last say in everything. I could suggest but her decisions were final and that is the way it should be. I am hers and am property and I find such amazing fulfillment in that.

Oh and I bought a pair of heels at one of the vendors. I'm including a pic with this post because I'm so happy with them. They are from the Highest Heel company. For the first time, I was able to try on a pair of heels before buying them in a comfortable environment. I think I even impressed a few girls by my ability to not fall flat on my face. :)

The last thing I want to bring up is Michael Sol. He gave a class on bondage floor work and he is an incredible man. A no bullshit, pansexual, good--hearted person. He reminded both me and Miss of how fortunate we are to find a lifestyle that we are both comfortable with and to have found such a deep connection in each other. For us, the bdsm lifestyle isn't just weekend play. It's our sexuality and influences all the other things we do in life and how we perceive them. He even came over to us to give us some tips on tying me up and actually fondled me. The sensations he gave me were orgasmic, to say the least. There is this spot just above the base of the penis that he pressed while massaging my prostate that I almost lost my mind. It was a huge honor to be in his class and much more of an honor to have him take that time with us. We both feel as if we are in his debt.

I'm forgetting many things about this weekend, that maybe I'll remember later in another post. But that was our weekend in a nutshell and a truly awesome experience for me.

marla1979 marla1979
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5 Responses Dec 8, 2012

That sounds like an interesting event, I would like to attend one

nice weekend

So cool, I like getting sucked.

Does Mistress make you suck a ****?

it\'s not something i really need to be forced into...

Is there going to be another event this year?

Yes :) going but I think it might be sold out