Taking Hubby From Behind

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Posted by Golddiggergal
on July 26th, 2010 at 12:27 AM


Often I am asked if I feel masculine whenever I take my husband from behind with my strap on *****. A good question. Some wives or girlfriends role play being a man and treat their men like women, referring to his anus as a p---y and making him talk like a woman, high-pitched voice and all. They might even geminate him by dressing him in panties, skirts, hosiery and the rest of the whole Crossdressing scene. And I can see why that would appeal to many couples. Turnabout is fair play, after all! But for me, the role of wife is more than fulfilling enough when I have the devotion and obedience (most of the time) of a husband that craves my domination of him as an integral part of our marriage. In the bedroom, or wherever I decide our sex life is to be swung into action, I know that I have the total cooperation of my mate, for this is what we have agreed is best for us.

A few have written me to ask for specifics. What do you do to him when you **** him? Do you have many toys? How big is your *****? Such curiosity around this site! Well then...

When I **** my husband's *** with a strap on, my ***** is about the same as a well-endowed guy would naturally sport and it is flesh colored, with a nice vein and a big bulbous head on it. As far as I am concerned, he is getting ****** with the real thing because I am really ******* him as hard as I can! But does that make me feel manly? Not really. It makes me feel more like I have his entire being under my command. I feel like the most powerful woman in the world when hubby's hips are in my hands. Let me say that the feeling is HOT!

My favorite moment is when I kneel behind my husband and spread his cheeks. That gives me a feeling of complete dominance over him. Or I might order him to reach back and spread for me while I cup his balls in my hand. It is entirely up to me and my husband is never more vulnerable than at that instant. Inevitably, he drops his head submissively, with his buns up and legs apart. His tiny pink butthole is exposed for me alone and his balls dangle in their sac when not held in my hand. I usually precede each conquest by lubing his hole and sticking my middle finger all the way up his ***. When I reach his prostate, his male G-spot as they sometimes call it, he groans like a horny little *****. I tell him that he is being a good boy. I love it! After a few minutes of examining his rectum and working him to a frenzy by massaging his prostate, I remove my finger. He is so ready to come by then, he can't hardly stand it. But I do not allow him to come until I have reamed his *** to my satisfaction. As I said, I am in control of my husband's butt and he is never allowed to forget it. If he touches himself furtively as I am fingering him, my other hand is ready to smack his cheeks until both his hands are compliantly on the mattress again. "You are about to earn yourself a paddling, young man" reinforces the message as to who is in charge.

And then, the blissful moment arrives. I put my ***** up to his crack, spread him wide and slowly push the ***** inside him until he is penetrated to the hilt. I tell you, that never gets old! I feel flush with power as my stallion glides in and out, filling his bottom and eliciting gasps and moans from him. He often backs up to take me in as deeply as possible. What a man-*****! I take hold of his hips and quickly establish a rhythm that has me rocking his world like he could only have fantasized when we met several years ago. In fact, he has confided that he used to wonder if he could find a wife that would take him by the balls and take his butt as much for her pleasure as for his own ecstasy. Well, guess what? He got all that he wished for and more!

I hope that gives you a sense of what my love life is like in our generally happy home. There is a lot of growing up for my husband to do yet and spanking him regularly has certainly accelerated his maturation. He knows that when he acts up, his pants come down and I tan him good with my hairbrush. He is a work in progress. But a woman's work is never done and I guess that is just fine by me!

Love,
Dee xoxo

Golddiggergal Golddiggergal
36-40, F
29 Responses Jul 26, 2010

I have only been taken with a strap-on once, and it was done in hate not love, your description of you taking your husband is how I always imagined it. Your obviously love your husband and he, obviously, trusts you implicitly, to not cause him excessive pain without cause.

Thank you, Mistress, for sharing your experience and to show the rest of us how much pleasure both parties can get from this act.

The more your wife ***** you the more submisssive you become and the more you crave the strap-on! please add me

You got my heart racing as I thought of this. It is something I wish I could get my wife interested in.

I am a sub bottom bimale - I crave being a sissy ****. I love it when my lady friend uses a ******* on me - i want it more and more - I want to be more of a sissy.

Neither of my wives' enjoyment of ******* sex devolved on feeling masculine or making me feminine. For my first ex, it was indeed about power and control -- the relationship and marriage were about power and control -- but that is not a male/female dichotomy. Ultimately, it became about denial: She used me with her ******* fore and aft and allowed me to eat her, but my poor caged **** never enjoyed her tight dark wet warmth (or very much release at all). <br />
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It was also about hurting me which entailed progressively bigger instruments of attack whenever I started getting relaxed/stretched enough to not scream. While I could grow somewhat accustomed to it, I never sincerely enjoyed it. <br />
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For my second ex, it was more about a different method for securing her own pleasure, just a different position as it were. Her ******* had internal attachments for her vagina and ***, as well as a thingy to stimulate her ****. <br />
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Role-reversing ******* play may, of course, be enhanced by sissification -- like another la<x>yer of flavor in a recipe. But emasculation and humiliation can be accomplished without enforced effeminization. And if a guy simply likes cross-dressing that's another fetish altogether.

I love how busy your mind is. On all the right things!
Dee xx

I'm curious for an update on your "work in progress."

Damn now that's hot. Do you have a sister like you?

Alas, I am an only child. There are cousins that I think of as my sisters as a result. They are not all that dominant. Humph. I had plenty of time to create my inner domme, I guess! ; )

Dee xxoo

OH well; If you ever need another sub I'm up for the challange

Ma'am, what I also love in Your method is that You do not cross-dress your husband. There's nothing wrong with cross-dressing as such but I feel it is another type of fetish altogether.<br />
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It is very exciting and...well, beautiful,...that You remain so feminine and so much Woman even while you dominate and own him.<br />
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Thank You, Ma'am, for sharing.

Lots of women will gladly take you from behind. Don't worry, just think about women in that way and at least one will emerge. You wait and see. Believe! <br />
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Dee xxx

Those blue eyes are not mine but it was lovely of yup to say that! You will be closer to the experience ny choosing to have it. Embrace your dream! XO

A male can be transformed thru regular anal penetration & prostrate milking. The change is both mental & physical. Mentally the bound & gagged male who bends over his red *** & is taken aggressively by his Mistress reinforces his self image as the submissive. Physically there is a change too. When a man **** in the conventional manner hormones released in his body, his macho-ness & sexual needs are satisfied & he rolls over & wants to sleep. When a man **** from anal sex especially if he is prohibited from touching himself (chastity device, bondage or Her Command) the ****** is different. The subbie oozes rather spurts. The ****** is more like a woman’s. The hormones released in his body are different too. he is not sexually satisfied but is sexually frustrated in a very submissive state of mind. The Domme's control over subbie in this state is ultimate. The subbie is wide awake & desperate for sexual satisfaction & completely under his Mistress's control. he no longer has any residual resistance. If the subbie **** in this manner on a regular basis his hormone balance changes with time & he accepts his role as the submissive to be used & penetratrated for his Mistress’s pleasure.

I find fascinating, and would like to learn more about the idea of true "transformation," mentally, emotionally and physically, voluntarily or otherwise, through conditioning, training and hormones.

Hi Dee:My wife is 50/50 on this, and only took me once, although she did admit she liked the powerful feelings. Spankings are rare, and only when I implore her. Only once did she admit to liking it.Your suggestion of having her read the post is marvelous. Would you be kind enough to post another telling more about why a woman should do this, elaborating more on the emotional the feelings from a feminine side, rather than the mechanics? I have a feeling if I show that to her my marriage will be complete!Thanks!!

I particularly appreciate the fact thaat even when spitting your hubby, You never forget You are a powerful Woman, Ma'am and he is a conquered man. With all due respect to the army of EP transvestites, Domestic Discipline does NOT have to be about cross-dressing. <br />
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Expecting a submissive man to become a "woman" while the real woman acts like a male is simply an imitation - a parody - of the prevailing social attitudes which invariably assume that the dominant partner has to be the male while the female is submissive.<br />
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A pretty frail-looking feminine Lady may well be dominant just as a burly masculine man may be the submissive one in a relationship. It's not all about sissies and woman-wannabes.

God, Dee if you were serious I'd love to go across your lap for a good old fashioned spanking.<br />
Ad you could use that strp on me

As it is for me as the "giver," Michael. When I am pegging my naughty hubby, the heat from his freshly paddled bottom emanates to my hands while I grip his sturdy hips and plunge in deep. He groans like a little boy-**** when I am all the way in! I think that when the head of my ***** reaches his prostate, it gives him a bit of a shock. ; )<br />
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Dee xxoo

Thank you, fine gentlemen above. You are deserving of all that a Mistress has to give you. Starting with a good old-fashioned spanking, that is. I wish that I could be with you now, ordering you to drop your drawers and get over my knee. I have just the right hairbrush for your naughty bottoms! <br />
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Dee xxoo

Wow Dee, this has me comming back time and again. Never had the pleasure just the fantasy<br />
hubby is a lucky guy.

I have also read this story over and over. And i am convinced that you are indeed a very very special women, and i hope that your husband can understand how lucky he is.I have also been blessed to find a Goddess as your hubby has that knows how to teach one of the inferior sex to become a better partner, as life requires more than a husband, he must also be your best friend and lover with no secrets.In the 15 years My wife Mistress L and i have been together there have been many changes in our very strict femdom relationship. I am so happy now being L's submissive sissy that lives to pleasure Her in any shape or form without ever questioning her authourity

Hugs and kisses, sweet sissie. You are such a cutie!

Curtsy to Ms. Dee (blush)

Thanks so much, sissie. What a lovely thing to write!<br />
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Dee xxoo

Ms. Dee, I probably read Your story 20 times! What an incredible power exchange! You Do realize what a rare and wonderful woman You are! I think You will really enjoy continuing on this journey with make-up, lingerie and girly clothes. Perhaps even giving "her" a girly name for play-time! Please let us know! kisses, sissy jennifer

>> "That is, on your hands and knees with your buns up" << ... O M G A position I constantly dream of being made to get into - You are a Goddess and I was born to serve a woman like you. This is my all time favourite fantasy - sadly - one that I feel I'm never going to experience. Your Husband is a very lucky man.<br />
Thanks for sharing this awesome story

>> "That is, on your hands and knees with your buns up" << ... O M G A position I constantly dream of being made to get into - You are a Goddess and I was born to serve a woman like you. This is my all time favourite fantasy - sadly - one that I feel I'm never going to experience. Your Husband is a very lucky man.<br />
Thanks for sharing this awesome story

Mmmm.... I'm in position ready and waiting for you Dee. Be gentle - you'll be dealing with virgin territory!

That is, on your hands and knees with your buns up, badboris! Yummmm...<br />
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Dee xxoo

What an amazing desc<x>ription. I have always wondered how it would feel to be royally ****** by a woman with a ******* - and you paint an amazing picture. Oh to be in your hubby's place for the night.....

Sissyness is important to a lot of men, I have realized since beginning my sharing with other EP members. More than I ever knew! This will be a subject in my marriage soon. I will see to it, Sabrina!

You have described this well. I was a Domme for several years and this is quite literally the way it was for me quite often... although I also pushed them into more sissyness too.

Why not have her read this post, stroker? Or copy and paste it in an e-mail to her. You increase your chances of fulfilling your deep desire by sharing with her in no uncertain terms. I imagine she will be taking her rightful place between your cheeks very soon thereafter. Best of luck, my friend!<br />
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Dee xxxooo