I Am Introverted
I like being alone. No, scratch that, I LOVE being alone. Of course, some social interaction and hanging out in public is needed from time to time, but mostly I like to be alone. Really alone, with no other people around. Spending too much time with other people makes me exhausted and in the end I just want to retreat to my home and "rest" (do stuff alone).
People generally have trouble accepting introversion. They think that something must be wrong with me if I don't particularly enjoy going out with friends or partying it down every week-end and instead I prefer to stay in and read a book or watch a movie - by myself, of course. Most people take it personally, but it's not their fault. For example, after a day spent at school in the company of MANY people, I do NOT want to go out and see them again! I just don't! A lot of classmates ask me to hang out after school but I usually have to make excuses up and they get upset. Sorry, but after 8 hours in YOUR company, I need 8 hours of MY company alone. I mean, I like people, but not that much... if any of this makes sense.
Not to mention, sometimes it is thought that I hate everybody because I'm really bad at small talk. I mean, you don't care about what I have to say, I don't care about you either, so why waste our time?! Unless there's actually something important to say, there's no reason to talk senselessly.
Okay, rant over.
People generally have trouble accepting introversion. They think that something must be wrong with me if I don't particularly enjoy going out with friends or partying it down every week-end and instead I prefer to stay in and read a book or watch a movie - by myself, of course. Most people take it personally, but it's not their fault. For example, after a day spent at school in the company of MANY people, I do NOT want to go out and see them again! I just don't! A lot of classmates ask me to hang out after school but I usually have to make excuses up and they get upset. Sorry, but after 8 hours in YOUR company, I need 8 hours of MY company alone. I mean, I like people, but not that much... if any of this makes sense.
Not to mention, sometimes it is thought that I hate everybody because I'm really bad at small talk. I mean, you don't care about what I have to say, I don't care about you either, so why waste our time?! Unless there's actually something important to say, there's no reason to talk senselessly.
Okay, rant over.