Please Explain This To MeMy lady friend just filed divorce. they were married for 16 years, both works good job, no children. The husband was cheating, she caught it and she wants out.
When I brought up the idea of a second chance, she open up her heart to me for the first time. According to her, cheating is not the reason she is leaving, she never actually loved him, she married him because he is a nice responsible man with good sense of humor. She always thought, over time the love will come, but it never did in the past 15 years, she even went on saying that she doesn't like the way he smell, they had almost no sex in last 12 years. he doesn't even get a hard-on with her anyway. I know this couple for last 10 years and never knew all this. She never made any sexual advance towards me or any other friends. I really don't get this, why stay in a marriage like this for such a long time specially where there is no children involved.