Moving On And Hopefully Up!I came to the decision to separate from my wife while were apart this Christmas. I have been looking into the details and am not sure if we should separate first to cool off, ot just outright divorce. I don't see our relationship going anywhere... But I hurt for the 16 years we spent together in so much turmoil. I don't wish her any (much) ill-will, but we have not accomplished much in counseling. Is it possible to find a woman to love that will love me back at my age? (51)
I am looking forward to meeting someone, not begging for attention or sex, trusting someone again... Is this possible, or is it just wishful thinking? I have the courage now to find out. I do feel old, but there must a decent woman out there for me.