I Was Duped

After an unhappy 17 year marriage and brutal divorce, I had peace in my life and felt a sense of confidence I had never known. After a few years I dated a little, but was not looking to remarry. Then I met the man I did go on to marry. I was in therapy at the time and was determined to make smart decisions. This man was so different from my first husband. He treated me and my daughter with respect and kindness. After several months we had sex and being with him was unreal. I had never experienced sex like this before. When he asked me to marry him, it felt like a dream. In fact, our wedding night left me giddy for days. And that was that. After that night it was like I had plague. In fact, if we did kiss or hug and he began to get aroused, he would push me away and tell me we had better stop before things got out of control. We have now been married 4 years, and I can't remember the last time we had sex. He says terrible things to me and never makes any attempt to spend time with me. My few friends don't even come to our home to visit because of the way he speaks to me. On my last birthday he told me, "Happy Birthday you old bag in front of a gtoup of family friends. A year ago I became do depressed I had thoughts of hurting myself. I see a therapis
mommy50 mommy50
46-50, F
Sep 8, 2012