Married But Alone
I have been married for almost four years and my wife has developed this thing where she can't stand to be around me. I have always heard that if you let someone be free to go as they please, if they come back they are yours forever. My wife is going back overseas for a few months to get away from things (or should I say us). Our marriage is in a very bad spot right now. We are both so angry at each other! She has not been intimate with me in over four months and I can count on one hand how many other times we have made love in 2007. Hopefully the distance and space will help to make us grow stronger or at least figure out what we need to do to make ourselves happy. The past month has been the worst by far. I made a suggestion that I would like us to rent a cabin in the mountains for my birthday to just relax with our dogs and get away from the City. She told me that we did not have the money so I just dealt with it. The real problem came when the next weekend she used our skymiles to take a trip with her bestfriend to Miami for a long four day weekend. No money to rent a cabin in the mountains but apparently there was money to spend $500 on a trip to Miami. I am just really lost for words! Does my wife really love me? I would never have done such a thing to her. I am so lonely! Lonely for affection and light conversation.