I Just Don't Know What To Do Here.. Help Please!Okay so I'm in a relationship with the guy, and we've only been dating for 3 months. But we see each other just about everyday. I'm really happy but there are some flaws.. He still talks to his ex and the were together for a long time, and I just have a really bad/sketchy feeling about her. From what iv'e been told about her i have every right to feel that way. But a few weeks ago he left his phone at my house and it went off a whole bunch of times within a few minutes so i looked to see what the hell someone wanted, it was his ex. She was mad because he wasn't texting her and she kept saying she missed him and loved him and that she wanted him to break up with me.
When i asked him about it he said he doesn't have any feelings for her and he doesn't want to be with anyone but me. And that made me happy, and i was fine until a few days ago he said he was going to pick up his friend which was cool, i had to babysit anyway, i called him to ask him something and i heard a girl in the background, come to find out it was her..
I am really happy with him, i have never had a boyfriend that was nice to me all the time like he is. He is honestly the best guy any girl could ask for, but i don't know how to tell him i don't want him to talk to her anymore or hang out with her with out sounding controlling. Usually when im in a relationship i always hang out with my ex's and i usually don't care what my boyfriend says, but with him its different, iv'e been avoiding all contact with my ex's because i don't want to mess things up with him. and i think he should do the same in return.. I spend all my free time with him and I'm starting to have a lot of feelings for him and i don't want to end up getting pooped on in the end. I don't want to waste my time with something that is going to come back and bite me in the ***. Iv'e been hurt wayyy to many times and I would lile for it to not happen again..
So my question is, am i in the wrong here? should i say something or just forget about it? should i talk to him? and if so what should i say?
I'd really appreciate some help.. :(
cef2412 18-21, F 4 Responses 0 Apr 28, 2012