Look At MeBeing lonely is being unique. The biggest challenge is how to live with it. I know we have these feelings and needs. After a while it becomes overwhelming. We want somebody to be with us for different reasons. It seems to be in our nature to not to feel abandon.
But if you really understand what is happening, if you know those are just feelings and you can live with them, then there is nothing - I guess that can put you down. What I am saying is that instead of wasting your energy on changing your situation - Just accept it. In the beginning, it is not so easy because just understanding is not enough. Words of wisdom don't bring any relief. It can be painful and stiff. It can raise a lot of questions.
But don't worry because after some time and a little bit practice, all straightens. You have to learn how to be with yourself. Of course there are good days and bad days. But nothing is so dramatic as was earlier especially when you agreed that loneliness is good. I wish it could be different but I am OK - you will accept reality that way. Anyways, when you are not lonely there are good and bad days. World is not a perfect place. And this might sound selfish but there is much less problems when you are lonely than when you are in pair/s.
Just deal with the feelings and let them get vanished - which they certainly will - and look on the bright side. And in the end, you will find that I am alone but not lonely. There is so much in me that you can't even imagine.
Bolek 41-45, M 12 Responses 16 May 10, 2012