Lonely

I can be in a room of people and feel so alone. I cant' even begin to explain it. My heart is lonely. Wish I could just end it. Wish someone did understand.
Starr79 Starr79
26-30, F
10 Responses Apr 11, 2007

Have you ever considered maybe talking to a counsellor, someone that could help you through how your feeling properly...whatever your feeling right now do not do anything stupid I promise you will not feel this way forever, I think you should definitely seek help about the loneliness your feeling because it sounds to me you may be suffering a bit with depression.

I understand. I can't tell you how to fix it, but I understand.

alone and loneliness most definitely get confused....I feel misunderstood and sometimes that makes for a lonely feeling, just try to remember that you are very much connected to everyone. But the more complex and sensitive you are as a person the more you will realize that you will eventually gravitate towards the right people. This is my wish and hope for the future myself. I totally feel that responding to you is an act of understanding and that its very true that we are not alone at all. We are the God energy and we are getting closer to understanding it.

i am in you position right now and believe me when i say i understand what your going through...i use to think it was only me. sometime i too would be in a room full of people and feel like i am in a gifferent world because everyone there happy and having fun...while i set there and wonder where in the world do these people find happiness from? i sometimes even feel more lonely that i just have to get up and leave.

i am in you position right now and believe me when i say i understand what your going through...i use to think it was only me. sometime i too would be in a room full of people and feel like i am in a gifferent world because everyone there happy and having fun...while i set there and wonder where in the world do these people find happiness from? i sometimes even feel more lonely that i just have to get up and leave.

I think a job or a lover will good helps.All human feel lonely sometimes.We need friends,lovers,family to solove this problem.My jon is a company manager,and most of my time,i am working on my website: www.dunksb-king.com or maybe my blog.http://www.bloglines.com/blog/dunksb-king You can do the same,hope this will help you

I know exactly how you feel, and have even gone as far as going into seclusion with no contact with people for over 14 years (outside of my brother and his wife who visited me for 2 hours every week to deliver groceries).<br />
Have spent the last 4 years trying to reopen communication with the world and people around me only to be further mistreated. Luckily I feel my life still has purpose- and tenaciously cling to my dreams of finding a soulmate and benefitting society through my works. Writing plays a major part in my dreams and in my socialization- like Angelsweet says above it can help<br />
to build communication skills and build bridges to others who understand the way you feel. Never forget that each day has to be lived one day at a time and that things can often change for the better in a heartbeat. Just keep on keepin' on and things will eventually change for the better- set some personal goals and try to take adaptive action to attain them- find purpose in life and you'll soon attract true friends and potential relationships that will bring communication and eventually replace the limbo youare in with accomplishment, meaningful friendship and a much brighter outlook on life.

I completely understand what you're saying here. Sometimes it seems like the more people you're around the lonelier you feel. You want to say something to somebody and just once feel like they understand it. Everyone seems either so shallow or just on a totally different wavelength that you just stop trying altogether.<br />
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I write a lot, which helps me. You might want to try that. But I understand just needing human interaction. I guess that's why I'm online right now.

Hi, <br />
I have been there. Please believe that it will get better. It does get better. Seek all the help you can.<br />
Be kind to yourself. Say good things to yourself. I beat myself up badly all the time. This is not good. You are fabulous because you are you. We are all different. People or that one special person will show up in your life. Believe that. It will happen. You will not be lonely in future. Hold on, relax and hold on to hope for the future even though it does not feel good now. I also feel alone.<br />
Cassandra

Life is tough at times, but sometimes we can make it a lot tougher on ourselves. I know how you feel when you say you feel alone even in a group of people. You feel different from them, you dont feel like you are connected to them on a same level almost like you are not accepted. And you know in your mind that in an hour or so its not going to matter because you will have left and without really connecting with any of them. I do understand, life is tough but sometimes we need to let go of these horrible feelings inside of us, we do have that power to let go. Remember that the sun will rise tomorrow to a new day. You dont have to hold onto anything from the previous day and you dont have to worry about tomorrow because that day is enough to think about. you dont want to end it, you want to make it better. Start by looking inside yourself in your inner strength and you will be free.