Married But So Lonely

I am married with 4 children, 1 still at home, I have 2 grandchildren and one on the way, I have a son in the Army in Iraq, I've been married twice, my three older children are from my first marriage and my youngest is with my current husband. He is a workaholic and my 13 year old now is the closest thing as my best friend, I'm so worried about what my life will be like when she is grown up and out of the house, and I also realize that as she is getting older that our relationship will change and I'll be all the more lonely.

 

 

 

 

 

 

redrose redrose
46-50, F
3 Responses Apr 12, 2007

I have been maried 18 yrs. and am so lonely it hurts.<br />
We haven't had sex for one year. This is a big part of my peace, and I don't know what to do. I have yet to<br />
cheat,but that's looking like an option. Any comments?

I'm nearly dead now as i have been searching my entire life for a decent woman, but i always was 'just friends" while the women kept repeatedly attaching themselves with men who ended up unsatisfactory. Now I'm crippled, very sick and lonely. I have no family- never did and will have to die alone because women never see what they have, they keep shopping around.

The shoulder they cry on is the guy they should be with rather than "just a friend".

Best advice... don't. I'm there too, and I keep hoping someone will give me the nod, but it's just not who I am. I'm guessing you are not as well, and it will only lead to regret. Just Don"t.

I am also married and very lonely. I have 3 grown children; all out on their own. I have one beautiful Granddaughter and another Grandchild on the way. I know how you feel; you fell so helpless and don't know what to do, yesterday I just walked around stores, driving around, not knowing what to do. Being around my Granddaughter always helps me but I haven't been able to see her for 3 weeks now. She was suppose to come over today and spend the night but she is sick. I will spend another day alone.

I am also married and very lonely. I have 3 grown children; all out on their own. I have one beautiful Granddaughter and another Grandchild on the way. I know how you feel; you fell so helpless and don't know what to do, yesterday I just walked around stores, driving around, not knowing what to do. Being around my Granddaughter always helps me but I haven't been able to see her for 3 weeks now. She was suppose to come over today and spend the night but she is sick. I will spend another day alone.