Ladies..your Thoughts!This begins the ramblings of a coming migraine..apparently I give them to myself as I *overthink* everything! Whatever!!!
I question relationships, men, life in general. I think, we ladies should never, ever get married. Choose the handsome face we want to make our babies with..check mental health history first! Use them, do not tell them you are pregnant..move on. We need our babies, they don't!
Dating a man, he caters..wines and dines you. Puts an effort into sex..treats us as if we were special and wanted. They do little things for us..happily. Try to keep them away..almost impossible.
Now, get married and wow...lights out. They become ball scratching, beer drinking slobs with a passion for a pigskin ball, or golfing, or ba
The lady down the street now is more appealing, the garage is filled with toys like they are 5 year olds, they say their stress is more than yours! Are you kidding me? I helped you get where you are, gave up my dreams so you can live yours, you leave your stress in lists for me to handle and then complain because I am stressed and have migraines handling your life and mine!
And there it is, married and with separate lives! Mother says, all men are the same..it is why women choose to become lesbians...Mother?? LOL she says pat them on the head and just deal with it! No thank you! I actually think there is more to a relationship than this!
Call me a dreamer, but I need that dream. A dream of finding my other half, of belonging, maybe even believing in love. I want to cherish a man, get excited because he is calling or coming home any time now. I believe I should get a warm and fuzzy feeling when I am with him, or just thinking of him. I want to work at making him want me, need him to want me as I want him. I do not want to hang off my side of the bed and watch him do the same. I want to be in the middle, curled around him..feeling as if I am home.
Yea yea, I know. I am asking waaaayyy too much! Well then, guess I will spend the rest of my life dating. A lot easier to get rid of the dead end relationships then! And find someone with a little more spark and attentiveness..Hmm..I always heard about that southern charm...what do you say ladies..it it all talk too???
moondancelady 46-50, F 8 Responses 5 Sep 22, 2012