No Job - No Friends - No Life

Two years back, I had my dream broken, felt hopeless, for a while that jovial, positive funny boy was dead. I wondered if that's how you grew up, was it true, that the people who never frown, eventually break down? Well, then I realized was whatever I thought of myself, I made of myself. If I thought I was worthless, I'd act like it and then actually become worthless.

So I decided not to be worthless, in my own eyes, I made life worth living, I started living in a way, that when I'm 40 and look back, I'll never regret, nor wonder what did I do worthwhile in my life. Because I have no doubt, I'm not worthless.

You don't wanna be worthless, you make yourself worthy..I don't know what will make you think that, it maybe different for everyone. Although I know it's not easy. But then, greatness is forged in the crucible of hardship.
You want friendship? Go out there and make friends. You probably won't have much success at first, but making friends is not that hard. Be friendly, smile, laugh..make that happen.
You want a job? Find something you love to do, find something to believe in. Work towads that. Motivate yourself.
Every one on this planet has a right to happiness, a right to make and spread happiness, and no one, not even you can take that away from you. It's not hard to be happy, watch birds fly around, feel the wind, think nothing else, feel the sun on your skin..experience, live.
Success and happiness is not a goal but a journey.

'Social Inadequacies'? Do not try and go out to impress this society. Do not try to gain influence and popularity. It's not worth it. This society, where people conveniently forget all the pain, to feel good, when the go against their values and morals to become a success in the eyes of others doing the same, a society of slaves to prejudices, a society where people simply survive and don't live, a society which choose profit over humanity isn't worth pleasing, and let me ask you this, do you live your life or others? Will you take the path that others lay down before you, or will you be another sheep.

Don't assume stuff, life has a funny way of proving you wrong. Work harder if you have to. Motivate yourself. Maybe seeing things this way will help-

Everyone has undergone sadness,regret and trauma. While some people recover, some dont. You know what? Because it's easy. It's easy to cry. It's easy to feel sad, it's easy to hate yourself, it's easy to hate humanity, it's easy to hate your life, it's easy to wallow in self-pity, it's easy to regret stuff, it's easy to give up, it's easy to not get back up when you fall, it's easy not to rise again, it's easy to just let go, it's easy, to be the person you hate right now.

It's hard to stop crying. It's hard to let go of the pain. It's hard to make a promise to yourself to get better. It's harder to work on that promise. It's hard to see happiness all around you. It's hard to appreciate how wonderful life is and how much it's worth. It's hard to spread happiness, it's hard to be hopeful. It's hard to rise up again, it's hard to not blame yourself and beat yourself over the past, it's hard to be idealistic, it's hard to live life, to the fullest instead of surviving, it's hard to be strong. It's hard to become great, it's hard to become a legend.

That's why, there are more sad people than there are happy ones. Being sad is simply put, the easier way out.

Humans, are lazy, and scared to choose the hard way.

And greatness is forged in the crucible of hardship.

Those who choose the hard path, lead happy lives, are great people. Not rich and famous great-money and popularity are worth ****..although money is necessary, but not more than you need- helping the oppressed great. Feeding the poor great. Making people in their lives happier great. THAT kind of great, the true greatness.
Next time you wanna cry, refuse to give in. Tell yourself, the past is the past and you won't be dragged down by it. You won't be average, you won't be like a billion others. Why? I'll tell you why. Because you won the cosmic lottery just by being born. Life is too great, too long and too short to be mediocre. No, you were meant for greatness. So were the 7 billion others on this beautiful rock. Few realize it. It's always been inside you, clawing at the walls you put up around it, drowning in the flood of tears you wept, cutting at the walls of its prison, begging to be let free. Let it out. Allow yourself to make things better for yourself.

You don't have my sympathy, because sympathy isn't truly felt. You have my support,as a fellow human being and a friend. And I hope this may help you. You can, make life better, but you yourself must do it, even if things get worse, even if you feel alone, change all the things you don't like about yourself, I can only suggest, I can only show you the way. You, on the other hand must act.

Easy way or the hard way? Struggle or Submit? Are you the architect of your fate or will your dreams never see fulfillment? Sheep or Free Bird? Loser or Legend?

And now, we leave it to the reader to decide, who is the happier man, the sailor who braved rough seas and survived, or the man who never left shore to be safe?

Nil Mortalibus Ardui Est- Nothing is impossible for humanity. That includes you, coko. Go out there and make **** happen.
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