Cliche Lonely Teenager

I've been getting really lonely alot.  I'm a very lucky person because I have the best friends in the entire world, but I still get lonely- mostly in the romance department.  I feel like I should be okay with being single, I don't need a relationship to validate myself, I just want somebody though.  I want to love someone and be loved in return, for real this time.  I want someone I can be totally open and honest with, with out any fear of being judged.  I want someone who I can  talk to about anything and everything.  I want someone who I can just be a goof with.  I just feel like I'll never find that, and I have so many doubts about love.  It gets even harder because I'm a lesbian and I know so few othe lesbians and bi girls.  I'd just like to be able to find someone.