I've been getting really lonely alot. I'm a very lucky person because I have the best friends in the entire world, but I still get lonely- mostly in the romance department. I feel like I should be okay with being single, I don't need a relationship to validate myself, I just want somebody though. I want to love someone and be loved in return, for real this time. I want someone I can be totally open and honest with, with out any fear of being judged. I want someone who I can talk to about anything and everything. I want someone who I can just be a goof with. I just feel like I'll never find that, and I have so many doubts about love. It gets even harder because I'm a lesbian and I know so few othe lesbians and bi girls. I'd just like to be able to find someone.