Valentines Blues...

Friday nite, home alone, bored, and tomorrow is valentines day... I hate it. I am alone and lonely.

please tell me I am not alone!

geesh why does love have to suck so bad!,

ginai ginai
36-40, F
6 Responses Feb 13, 2009

you are not alone....the worst for me is I don't even feel well enough to even consider having a relationship!

well, actually it does make me feel better? I dunno if that is the right term for it, but it helps knowing that not everyone on this very crummy V day is out having romantic dinners, cutesy bears and chocolates, and having great sex!<br />
I hope they all get whip lash or something!!!

Yeah. I hear some people say that V-Day is just another 'Hallmark Holiday'. Yet they are always people in relationships. They don't know what it's like to not have a chance to share it with someone. I've never had a V-Day card, even when I was in a relationship, V-Day .. roses, a carefully planned suprise dinner .. and she never showed up, went out with her friends (and as it turned out, her 'real boyfriend') instead. That's the only V-Day I've had. And that was 13 years ago. It hurts. To see couples together, Holding hands. Holding each other.

Yeah, same here year in year out. 44 years old, one Valentine card for my whole life about 20 years ago and that was sent as a joke. I've got used to it by now. Don't worry ginai, you're definately not alone!

sorry to hear that if it makes u feel any better it sucks for me too im alone 2 but im use to it eventhoug i'am i still feel lonely but im ok ... just hope in time u will to ...

I know what you mean Ginai. I am in the same boat. Someone at work said I was lucky because I didn't have to buy anything. Somehow I don't feel very lucky.<br />
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I have one thing to say Ginai. Happy Valentines Day.