I've been feeling kind of lonely lately. I wish I had like a guy friend or something. I enjoy my female friends but it's kind of sad the I'm almost 18 and don't really talk to straight guys.
PurpleHart PurpleHart
18-21, F
4 Responses Aug 21, 2014

Take dancing lessons. It gets you out of the house, you learn how to dance...like dancing with the stars...and that helps you all the rest of your life. You meet people...even if they are older...and you don't have to think about being lonely. Your parents will pay for it.

I never had many friends either. Actually, I had no real friends from 15-17. But then I got older and things start working differently. People will always tell u things will get better in time, and it's obviously not always true, things do change in time, it just depends on what we do with that change.

It's usually common for a girl not to have guy friends.
If you think about it, there's actually not much to chat with a guy. You'd kinda feel that he's sometimes uninterested in your topics, because we as girls, like to talk about our life and feelings mostly.

How come?

It's not that I avoid guys, they just don't approach me. And I got picked on a lot by boys in middle school and that stuck with me so in just kind of scared now I guess.