So I'm gonna go on a rant.
I've tried the dating scene a couple times since my last girlfriend forever ago and it hasn't been very successful.
The only place I'd ever get to meet and hit it off with new women were at parties or bars which is the worst place to meet girls cause they were only looking for a guy that night not the kind of girl you'd want to get attached to cause you can't keep them and you don't want to.
Due to the area where I live it being a whole county full of small towns everyone one knows everyone and even their dogs name.
The only girls that ever seem to take interest in me are already taken or are the village bicycle if you get what I mean. I'm not looking to be a home wrecker or catch anything.
The last time I had a really good time and had a connection was at a music festival and she lived all the way in Florida I would have never seen her again so we went our ways and speak every now and then.
I dunno what to do really
Maybe with time something will pop up but as of now I don't really know.
Anyone have advice?
rjschuler rjschuler
22-25, M
2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

it's hard… are you in college though? i like what the person said before me… it's when you are least looking that you will meet someone

Dating is one of the most challenging things you will ever get yourself into. Find a hobby - that's my advice and look for friends above all. At some point you might even fall for one.