Why?

i isolate myself too, i never feel right when im with society... it just feels so wrong when ppl take a glance at you and say "i dont like you". or the way ppl will hate what race or religion you are. if your gay, bi, or straight. if you where hollister, aeropostles, pacsun. if you use hair product or not. if your favorite color is black, blue, or red. im a christian, but my two best friends are saintinists. the only creature i would truly die for without any hesitation or thought was a dog. sometimes i wonder why ppl cant atleast try to see other ppls points of views. to see what its like to be them. *hugs*

It's a horrible feeling, being lonely...I'm not lonely in the traditional sense at all, because I go out a lot and do have a lot of friends, but there's always those times that you feel like saying...you know what, I have all these people in my life but somehow I still get the feeling that you don't really understand where I'm coming from with this.

Those people at school though, seriously. I can't stand people who are always sat around in their own cliques and don't talk to anyone they think is uncool. It's really weird. Just think about the fact that if you saw someone upset or worse off than you, you'd probably be nice enough to do something about it. They wouldn't.

Dude, this is my first comment i m sharing since i became a member only hours ago. Solitude and loneliness is one of the worst situations that a person can experience. I don't talk about trying to find calm and peace and by choice be alone for a while. Try smile more (in a friendly and calm way). People these days need smiles and laughs in their lives. I know it's difficult (I've been in your shoes years ago). Being socialized is not easy all the times cause people have various characters. But try and talk to people. Some of them might judge you, yes, but hope and expect that some of them will listen. Don't give up even if things won't go as you planned at the start. I hope I helped.



Stir it up my friend.....! :)

I'm a bit like that too.. except i have a group of friends at school.. I feel comfortable being myself around them because they accept me for who I am. But around anyone else? I am very quiet and don't talk at all.

my social life is kindof screwed up too.. so only take my advice for whatever its worth..



but I think you should try to shake your fear of being judged.

im a bit like that, so afraid of what other people will think of me, always putting up facades just to try and be liked.



But i think Ive realised that you have to be yourself. You gotta be yourself, and if people make a negative judgement of you, then those people are arseholes and should not be your friends, and you should stop putting up facades to please them.



Because some people will see who you really are and make a positive judgement. and they should be your true friends.