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BEING Lonely

I TOOK A RISK  YEARS AGO AND WENT OUT WITH SOMEONE AND WE WERE TOGETHER FOR TEN YEARS. I DID EVERYTHING TO MAKE HIM HAPPY IT WAS NEVER GOOD ENOUGH. HE CHEATED I LEFT SO HERE I AM ALONE AND LONELY. I HARDLY EVER SLEEP ANYMORE. ALL I EVER WANTED WAS TO BE LOVED AND GIVE IT BACK IN RETURN. THE SILENCE GETS SO AWFUL AT TIMES. SOMETIMES I JUST WANT TO BE HELD WANT SOMEONE TO TALK TO ME TELL IT WILL ALL BE OKAY. HOW DID I END UP HERE IN THIS HOUSE WHERE THERE ARE NO SOUNDS AND NO ONE TO LOVE ME OR MAKE LOVE TO ME??

keeaser keeaser 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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WHEN I SHARED MY STORY OF BEING LONELY I HAD NO IDEA THAT I WOULD GET COMMENTS THAT SEEMS TO BLAME ME FOR HIS CHEAING. I DID NOT SMOTHER HIM HE HAD ALL THE FREEDOM ANY MAN COULD ASK FOR. I SUPPORTED HIM IN WHATEVER HE WANTED TO DO. HE WAS WRONG IN WHAT HE DID I HAVE NOT DATED ANYONE IN SEVEN TO EIGHT MONTHS. WHY IS IT SO WRONG FOR ME TO BE LONELY???

I also need to add that my pets have helped and saved me in desperate times.

They gave me a purpose - it feels good to take care of them - and they still love me when i don't love myself...

Not sure if you are an animal person

but they are great friends - love you unconditionally -

won't betray you - and they NEED you.

We spend a lot of time playing -

they get so excited when I give them attention and love

and it helps to lift my spirits and not feel so alone.

you just explained my exact story...

and words cannot begin to explain how much I can relate to your feelings and your pain.

however, I wasted years on those same emotions

and when it comes down to it,

socio1 is so right and gave you excellent advise.

please stay strong for yourself.

i am currently in the middle of reading the book

Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert

it gives me a lot of comfort, knowledge and

takes my mind away for a little while...

People cheat for different reasons, some people just becuase they can, some people because they are lacking something at home, and some people to end a relationship, don't know him so don't know which it was, but i dunno just from the fact alone that your saying you're lonely without some1 to loves makes me understand that you don't love yourself, and when a person comes into your life you dedicate your life to them thinking its going to make you happy and in doing that you smother, and smothering is the number 1 reason why men leave women, so start loving your self and being happy with yourself and enjoying the company of your self and the next man who you love, you'll be able to balance it better and maybe he wont leave, and if he does screw him your happy with yourself

Aw stay strong... It sounds like you were too good for the guy you were with, and the fact that he cheated on you shows how much you deserve someone better. Don't let one bad relationship ruin the chances of others. There are so many guys out there! Many who will treat you like you should be. Have a night out with some friends and go get em tiger :)

dear Weeasal ..



I want u to listen to me so carefully ..



There are 2 kind of Men ..



the one which will stick With u forever more



and the one who will stick with u for Five Years ..



but .. By ur attitude .. and ur love .. You Have to show The other party How much He/ she is Precious to ur heart .. No matter what hapin ... even if ur sad .. or the other..



i can assure you You will be not alone in this life .. or even Sad ..





And .. In that home .. what ur talking about .. dont say that there is No Love ..



there is ..





alot of it ..



believe me ..



God Loves u ..



we Love you too ..



Dont be sad ..



if its not for me ..



For the good sake of our hearts my dear ..



and believe me ..





one time ..



You will Love .. and Inquire into it forever more ^^



With Love,

Sorrowfulness