Lonely

they got sergerys tht can help with obesity..my friend did it and she feel good... look good. and happy and more heathy now also..talk to a doctor or move to city where you can go to the gym....beat it dont let it beat you ..

hug!!

I am like you moved one year ago to a different comunity and culture , actually you should compromise between the bill you pay for your stay and the income ,are you forced to move?think of gowing back home ,if so difficult try to find your man where you are but be careful and dont be in a harry,god with you

Force yourself into trying new things.. Work hard to be in shape and make your own disteny.. Don't wait for anyone to reach out and help you..the only one who can balance your life is you, all you have is yourself.. And guess what, YOU CAN.. There are many homeless people who turned their life just like that.. Take baby steps at first but the key is to keep going..



You don't deserve to live like that! You're better you know it!!



look around you, many people can be good friends of yours if you really open your eyes..

I just recently moved and have met a lot of beautiful people, but they are not the people I met and knew back home. A person goes through alot when they make a drastic change. Befriend 2 to 3 people and invite them over when you feel comfortable. Take up exercise... something you have fun with... I used to be 192 and now am 140. It took me a while but I looked at each habit I had acquired and changed 1 at a time. I think social, diet, and exercise is a good order... now you could go to a park and walk...go to a gym.. then you cover your social and exercise need. Take heart, have courage, and learn you are your own best friend. In yoga.. do for yourself what you would do for a best friend...SMILE and LAUGH..and much hugs to you!!

Stop filling the void with food. If your happy with your wieght leave it, if not loose it. But your weight shouldn't dissuade you from making friends. You have to make an effort. You can't expect people to make a connection with you 100% It goes both ways you have to go in 50%, go in for the kill. No one just comes up to you and says lets be friends you have to make an effort with the people you interact with. People at work, neighbors, church mebers, etc. But most importantly you have to stop filling the void with food. The longer you keep gaining the wieght, the harder it is to take it off. And unlike an extreme makeover it isn't always a happy ending. Many people end up focusing on the time they "wasted" struggling as an obese person and get dpressed about it. Don't be one of those people. You're 27 you've got plenty to live for. Just wait it out a while. If your not happy about where you are in life January/Febuary maybe you should consider moving back home, or at least somewhere close by.