At this point in my life I feel I am destined to be unhappy. I've had one girl in my life "like" me and I am pretty sure she was attracted to the idea of having a guy. I am 21 and still a virgin, I know I am not the only one but it feels like I am. I currently feel I have no chance to break this in the near future. In my life there is no self confidence and I have almost given up all together on this endevour. I have no best friend, and am nobody's best friend. At best I am a second to third string friend, who is only contacted when others are desperate for someone to hang out with. I have waited for several years for this to improve, but alas it has not. Oh well, I guess I'll have to keep going until something good happens, or it just all ends

iTom iTom
18-21, M
1 Response Mar 3, 2010

I have the exact same problems. I'm 24, but I have never had a girlfriend, I have only been really good friends with girls. My life is really lame and all I do is go to work, class where I have made no friends my entire college career, and home to sleep and just repeat that cycle. I'm not really a bar or club person so meeting people like that wont ever happen. I really don't mind solitude since it is pretty much the only thing I have known, I know its weird but I like going hiking in the forest by myself and just find somewhere with a scenic view and just sit for a few hours. I did have friends that were like me so I thought, but they all got girlfriends and would rather hang with their lady friends. So, the only calls I get from them are when they are looking for something or a phone number. So you're not the only one who feels this way. Hope all ends well for you.